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my ex gave me something..
when we first started dating my ex gave me a little heart necklace with our names on it. we broke up about a week ago but ill be seeing him today. should i give him it back? do guys take it as an insult? like a side of me wants to keep it to remember my first love but then the other side of me wants to get over him as soon as possible...what should i do?
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if you dont want to give it back,stick it in a small box and put it in the back of your closet or a drawer you rarely go in. thats what i did. honestly if you fell you should give it back then do it. just explain to him why. he'll understand. But if you choose to keep it do what i said and when you know for sure you over him you can take it out and just keep it for a good memories sake.
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If you feel the need to give it back, do so. If not, just keep it. Either way there are good and bad situations. Weigh the situation and its outcomes before deciding whether or not to give it back.
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First, ask yourself the question. "Do you really want to give it back?" If you still want to hold onto the memories, you still can. Of course, if he asks for it back, that's another story. Other than that, I think you should keep it for memories sake. Store it somewhere where you don't see it but can always go back to it whenever you want to :)
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Me and my first love just broke up last week and I returned EVERYTHING in a box. I just needed to make it all official and it would also help me get over it and him quicker and it just made me feel a lot better. It's whatever you want to do. Whether you treasure yall's relationship and want to keep a part of it, I just wouldn't wear, but keeping it is fine :D. It's whatever your take is on yall's relationship.
-Jenna
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Keep it. I still have things from guys I dated four or five years ago. It's a little souvenir type of thing. Unless he asks for it back (which would be a huge jerk move) just keep it. Put it up somewhere and bring it back out when your heart has healed and you can look at it without feeling too sad.
Hope this helps, and sorry about your break up.):
Darby(:
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