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my friend&crush + his family.
18-female.
do guys like it when your close with their family? i've been friends with this guy for awhile but i have also had a crush on him :p well all his brothers and sisters absolutely love me! this guy is 17, he has three sisters. their 15, 9 and 5. and one brother who is 11. this guy is my cousins neighbor also and im over there alot so they always see me. well last night me and my friend pulled up to my cousins and his younger brother and sister were outside playing so i was like nate!! (his bro) and he was like hey! and i started playing lacrosse with him and i started talking to his sister. well then my friend/crush came outside and was like just messing around with everyone and me my friend and his sister whose 9 went across the street and then his sister who is 5 rides her bike over and goes ASHLEY!!!!!!! and im like hey jenna :) and then i gave jenna a piggy back ride and we went on a little walk while my cousin and this guy and their other neighbor played basketball. and his sister (9) ended up getting a scrape on her elbow so we went indside their house and i cleaned it out and put a band-aid on it for her and then jenna read a book to me and my friend. well then later me and my friend went to the store and i told jenna i would get her a slushie and so i knocked on their door and his sister (15) answered the door and i was like hey jamie! and i was like wheres jenna and so i gave jenna the slushie and then i started talking to jamie and her friend who i also know for like a half hour in their entry-way. well then their parents came home and i dont realy know them that well but his mom smiled at me and stuff and then this guy was talking to her and asked if he could go somewhere so as i was talking to his sister, he just leaves and doesnt even say anything? i just love his family, im really close with them and i get along with them well but i dont know if he likes it or hates it. you would think he would like that i get along with his family but i dont know if hes annoyed or what. he doesnt say anything about it. i was just wondering?
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This could go either way depending on his personal preferance. I know I would hate if someone I was dating was friends with my family, but that's probably because I don't even get along with my family, it would be weird if my boyfriend did! It sounds like this guy doesn't know that you like him. In what you described, you and he didn't hang out at all, you just hung out with his family. Try to spend some one on one time with him. Get him away from his house and his family. Then you'll be able to talk to him privately and see what he thinks about you and his family getting along so well. It would also be a good time to passively mention your crush on him. It's better to know where he stands with it then waste time crushing on him and not knowing how he feels.
As far as guys liking it when you're close to their family, I would say most of them like it in between. They probably don't want you to be best friends with their siblings. But they don't want you to fight with them either. It's all about balance.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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