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What is with my crush?!


Question Posted Friday May 1 2009, 10:43 pm

Okay, me & my crush Kyle are good friends but recently I learned he's a player like 22nd I think he said to me "I 'like' alot of girls here." we were at are groups normal bowling day. After he said that he completely ignored me. Something else he said was "Guys think girls are cute when they mess-up, exspealiy when they like the guy." Uhg... He's a shy, player though... He acts like it, but I fear if he does am I just another girl or what? He's (almost) 15, shy, tall, blonde, smart & a player.
I'm 15/ female, shy, averge hieght, brunette(dyed red) & hardly crush.
Help would be awsome it's bad enough my enemy T is flirting with him. -_-'
Help? Please, I'm beggin.
-Sakura Kaori


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Ayatame_Kishatake answered Saturday May 2 2009, 10:29 am:
I've been in that same situation just a few months ago, and if he has a reputation for being a player, than more than likely he playing you, too. And as for what he said, it is a possibility that he's trying to do a little 'window shopping' if you know what I mean. Just to be sure, wait it out, and if he says more stuff like that, then it's a good possibility his ways haven't changed.
Keep me posted on what happens!
Hope I helped!
Drew McPhatter aka Ayatame Kishatake

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justwanttohelp85 answered Saturday May 2 2009, 10:26 am:
Usually players look at girls as conquest. The more they score the better they feel about themselves. It's a game to them get as many as they can. Some like a challenge some like it to be kinda easy. However too easey isn't usually preferd. The also like to have girls fight over them and sometimes egg it on a little. So if he knows you like him that could explain why he is treating you like he is. I would say don't waste your time on him and I do know that it is easer said than done. Try not to yourself think that he would be different with you. That he'll forget those other girls if he would just give you a chance. Find something else to think about when you start thinking about him. Girlfriends that will help you not to think about him are your strongest deffence. If possible find a girl or two that do not like him in that way.

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