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Heyy, so I been known as a prude girl and ya I am but I'm thinkin about acutally doing something with a guy but I'm so soooooo scared and don't know how to start doing stuff withguys once we start kisssing. I mean can u you help me through this and tell me how to loosin up a litte ya know?
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This happens to most teenage girls :)
If your not used to doing something, its hard and nerve wrackin and all sorts of stuff like that.
I'm from Manchester,England,& People here don't really make a big deal of sex and things...so there's a big pressure to just get on with it as if it's nothing.
this made my first time(sex) not as special as I hoped.
Once you start kissing... hmm
you could try stroking the back of his neck, wrapping your arms around his waist, Stroking his back, maybe put your hand up his shirt.. nothing TOO over the top...Most boys(if their comfrotable with it) will take the hint and maybe touch you aswell.
when you say 'Start doing stuff once you start kissing them'
Do you mean sex, fingering, feeling up?What?
Once the kissing starts the rest should follow naturally but if you want to give him a few hints try kissing him a bit more heavily or the things I said before about touching his back and stuff.
Hope this helpss.. inbox me if you wanna talk :)
Alice xoxoxoxo
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Lol hahahaha! You sound just like me!!!
Well, it depends on how you were raised. And everyone's naturally nervous of their 'first time'.
Me, I learned a long time ago that I just wasn't ready for that step yet, no matter how much I wanted to. Around where I live I'm known as a role model to older and younger kids, so it all depends on one person, YOU. If you think you're ready to accept the consequences of your actions, then by all means, go ahead and have a little fun. But mind this: For every cause there's an effect. But if it's more of a want-but you aren't ready for it-don't do it. You'll regret it in the future.
I would love to meet you. You sound so totally like my twin right now. Lol.
Hope I helped!
Drew (the girl type) McPhatter aka Ayatame Kishatake
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