Okay, So i'm 13/f and I wanted to know how to finger myself? And do I have to do it myself before a boyfriend does? And will it make sex less painful when I do plan on having it? Or will it make wearing tampons easier? (I can't wear tampons because it doesn't go on and hurts to bad) Well I was just wondering like how many fingers and do I need to use anything else? Oh and does it relive cramps? Ive heard that before that it does. Thank! (:
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There's no "right and wrong" way, it's just whatever feels good. I'd say figure out what you like and don't like before you let your boyfriend do anything...so this way if he asks you what to do, you can tell him what you like. Sex isn't always painful... but since it hurts when you put on a tampon, it might hurt the first time you decide to have sex, but fingering won't really change that unless you open up your hole.
The amount of fingers you use is completely up to you. If you wanna strech out your hole, you might wanna start out with a couple of fingers then increase as time passes.
I'm not sure about cramps, I have really painful periods, so I dont think it does. But then again everyone's different so it might help you. =]]
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