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Is age just a number?


Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 12:00 pm

Okay, So I'm 15 years old,a girl. Sophomore soon to be Junior this fall. I met this guy in theatre awhile ago. We'll call him A. He's 20 years old now. I have liked him for so long and I've had a feeling he liked me too. So one night he came over for dinner and my parents really like him. He also asked me to the movies before then, but my dad was not going for it. So we talk on the phone occasionally text alot. Then the other night we kind of told eachother how we felt. He actually likes me too. We just know this age thing isn't going to workout. Also, he's transferring to another college in the state in late August. So I was wondering what I should do. I mean the next day after we talked. We hung out. We kissed. Alot. So I'm just wondering...

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getting over the ex


Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 4:39 am

well this is going to be long haha. so my nd my ex josh met about 6 months ago. and we connected right away. i liked him he liked me. we were so into eachother. i heard he had a rep, a player. i brought it up, he explained himself, that girls take his nice guy aditude as a player. so i got over that and belived him, there was my first mistake. as weeks went by we had a lot of feelings. and then the sex came into the picture. i told him he is not mine so i dont want to. of course he said babe what do you think weve been doing for the last month other then being together. and i liked him so much iwas just like if were together why the hell not. so we did. then we talked a lot all the time 5 hour long phone conversations about just random stuf...

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Help Me


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 11:04 pm

Recently i started liking this guy and he is what you say CUTE the problem is i only see him like once a week or more when i see him playing baseball and never seems to look my way he will see me then turn away i like him and i want him to like me too but how do i get him to notice me without overdoing it please help me
Cathy
14
female


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boyfriend & smoking


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 10:43 pm

okay so ive been with my bf for 3 months and were 15 and pretty serious. and the other day he decided to smoke a cigarette and the last time he smoked it was weed and he wasnt going to tell me but i found out and got really mad bc i would rather have him tell me so he doesnt feel like he has to hide things from me. and he said he would never do it again. i mean i dont really care about weed because its not like as powerful and he doesnt do it like alot. but like cigarettes are just disgusting and i asked him multiple times if he smoked because i saw him a little later that night and he smelled gross. and i asked my friend if he did and he said he did and then i asked my bf if he did and i asked him like seperatley if he smoked weed then if ...

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Open Relationships


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 7:02 pm

In your opinion (or learning from personal experience), what are the pros and cons of a open relationship?

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simple? (hangon with me guys, its long)


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 5:37 pm

15/f

Like I stated, this is going to be terribly long.

I was introduced to a guy, who we're going to call "Derek" on Valentines Day, this year. Later that night he added me on Myspace. From there, we basically started 'talking'. It started off simple, cute and flirty, then after a month or so it got more serious. He came over to my house one day, and we spent literally six hours together. And of course, within those six hours we hooked up.
Everything was going fine, until about a month later when I screwed everything up, according to him. We were at a park, and it was brisk and windy. I was wearing shorts and a tank top. I asked him if he wanted to go back to my house (I lived 2 minutes from ...

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so i wanted to take sexy pictures...


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 3:57 pm

i wanted to take some pictures for my fiance....like you half nude and stuff. i got a disposable camera and i= started to take some pictures well its hard to do a whole lot when im the only one holding the camera so i was wondering if someone could give me some ideas so i could finish off the roll of film.....like different positions or outfits or expresions......i just need some ideas


thanx

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dating someone but like someone else


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 2:15 pm

i am going out with this guy who im not exactley sure im into anymore but i do like this other guy who idk wether he like sme or not should i break up with guy im dating or no? 14 female

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Girlfriend Away For a Month


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 1:37 pm

hi, 17/m
My girlfriend is going to visit the states (we're in the UK) for a month- july to august. I was just wondering what are some nice things i could do for her/get her before she goes, and while she's on holiday also. I was thinking..weekly e-mails? any tips? :D

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First date


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 1:35 pm

Hi, 17/m.
Ive Known this girl for about 7months, and we were just friends. The other day, i told her i like her, and we're officially an item (although she doesnt want everyone to know yet). Thursday is the day of our first proper proper date. Ive seen her around school..and we just talk for a while, and i talk to her on the phone everyday.

We're going to watch a movie, and We allready know each other, so we dont really feel uncomfortable around each other, but heres a few questions i have. What should by body language be? my arm around her? hold her hand? too early for a kiss? i ask this because...ive not dated a friend before....and its normally got the wierd first date because you dont know each other much, but this isnt the case. Any Help? Thanks.

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work/flirt


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 11:42 am

m.
17.

so.
i'm a lifeguard. there's this girl i work with [let's call her M], and she and i have really hit it off. what she doesn't know is that i have a girlfriend.

i find that i flirt a lot; not on purpose, but i do. especially if the girl a. is gorgeous and
b. likes the same music as me.

i find it hard to resist. i'm good looking [and walking around all day without a shirt on just boosts my ego], and i find it to be a huge ego boost when it's obvious that girls are looking at me, and even more when i know that they're flirting back.

what's happening to me now is the same thing that happened last summer: i have a girlfriend, but i find it increasingly diffi...

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Good Boy, Bad Boy


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 11:22 am

13/F

Okay. Here it goes. So there is the first guy (we"ll call him P) and I really like him. I have liked him for a year (maybe 2...) and I am truely crazy about him. He knows I like him and he has told me he likes me too. But, we had decided a long time ago not to date. He is 14 btw. See, hes moving soon (matter of days) and we have known this all year which is why I was do reluctant to date him, even though we both like eachother and act like a couple anyway... He is real cleancut. Plays 2 sports, on the honor roll, respectful, sweet, you get the point. But then there is this other boy...

This other boy is 15, goes to a diferent school, and we'll call him D. He is definitely not the kind of boy people w...

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Dream Predicament


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 10:27 am

I had dated this boy named Evan for about 1 year and something. Our relationship was great, no complaints here. We were in love. The reason we broke up was because he was moving away to college and we didn't want each other to get in the way of our studies and our college life. Well after 6 months of crying and heartache for me I finally got over him and moved on. So I met this other guy named Ray. Ray is such a sweetheart and a great guy. We've been dating for three months and I'm really happy with him. In the beginning of my relationship with Ray, Evan told me how he misses me and he's still in love with me. Obviously I was annoyed because he had his chance for about 6 months after our breakup. But I turned him down. So now three months ...

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What do really women want?


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 10:04 am

What do women want? because i have tried my best to please a woman that i really loved by all means, and what do i get? She cheats on me! But i really love her no matter what!

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Do love back really work?


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 10:01 am

Will it work out if i get back together with my girlfriend of 5yrs relationship then i dumped her because she cheated on me? Because i can forgive her but will it be the same as before or will i be chasing ghosts?

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What are the First Signs to show you that your lover is obsessed about you?


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 9:52 am

What i want to know is, what are the first signs to show you that your lover is obsessed about you? and What are the sings that shows that your lover is abusive and controlling? Cause where i am, i very puzzled about how things turned up between me and my ex-girlfriend.

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i like him but what can i do?


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 8:05 am

hi everyone.
firstly i'm 16.
there is a guy i really like. he knows this - i've told him. he has said he likes me too.
anyway we had a fall out over something stupid - not serious at all, i can't believe we even argued about it.
but he won't talk to me now, at all. i have tried to call but he didn't answer. i text, no response. it's been 2 days now. i am not going to keep bothering him, but i like this guy more than he thinks.
i am getting the feeling i should just give up, because he doesn't want to talk to me?
help please!
loves x0x

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Boyfriend going away


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 5:12 am

19.f

My boyfriend is going travelling around the states with his family for a 6montsh to a year and i promised him i wouldnt leave him when he goes. What can i do or give him to prove to him i wont leave?

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need help...be real


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 3:39 am

i stay with my babydaddy but we not together.he broke up with me on my birthday last year cause he though i was mad cause he work that day.which was sad cause that was not true.nut he was my first or everything including virginity.but i feel like he using me.lik if i say i won't give him money he would kick me out.and othe girls he talk to they don't give him money and he respect them more then me and im the mother of his chilld.he call me stupid slow.one day he love me the next he say he can't wait till i get out his life.then i found out he guve girls money.and im working hard giving him money and he don't help me out.he not even working.and when he go out of town i let him stay at my mom place.and he let gurls pick him up over there.and ...

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Couples' therapy


Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 1:58 am

I'm 21f, James is 23m.
I asked a question awhile ago about James and his family's trouble with me. I think I mentioned that we're starting to fight because of them, and some "blasts from the pasts" are coming back to haunt us. Me, specifically, though James bringing them up. James says he's still mad at me.
And then there's the deal with us fighting because his family hates me.

All of that crap in mind, I REALLY think we need to at least TRY a couples' counseling session. We love each other a lot, this crap is just getting to us because it never ends. We need to learn how to deal with it together so neither of us feel so alone. I really want us to go to therapy.

How do I convince my gu...

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