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getting over the ex
well this is going to be long haha. so my nd my ex josh met about 6 months ago. and we connected right away. i liked him he liked me. we were so into eachother. i heard he had a rep, a player. i brought it up, he explained himself, that girls take his nice guy aditude as a player. so i got over that and belived him, there was my first mistake. as weeks went by we had a lot of feelings. and then the sex came into the picture. i told him he is not mine so i dont want to. of course he said babe what do you think weve been doing for the last month other then being together. and i liked him so much iwas just like if were together why the hell not. so we did. then we talked a lot all the time 5 hour long phone conversations about just random stuff. then i noticed his whorish atidude and i didnt like it. i get jealous so easily. but i didnt say a word because i know he would just walk, and so then i kept all my feelings bottled up. and then wonderign if were even together. and then i just couldnt take him flirting with other girls so i told him goodbye to notcall me to block me on everything we have contact online and, the thing that broke my heart even more is, he actually for once listened.. and just let me go.. i think taht hurt me more then the goodbye. because after i didnt have him to talk to everyday, my world came to an end, crying non stop thinkin about him non stop. but then i got over it then i saw him with another girl, brought me back to our days, amde me sad, soon to find out he told his bestfriend (wich is my friend too) we were never together, and that hurt SO bad that he denies that we werent together, then he told my bestfriend taht i was crazy nd a fake cryer and hes only known me for a month. that broke my heart even more. so then my bestfriend messaged him and basicully he said hed never talk about me and blah and that it makes him sad we wont talk and blah and he said hed hit me up, that one sentence "ill deff hit her up i like seeing how shes doing" gave my heart so much hope, but then he never contacted me.. and hasnt unblocked me on msn..idn what to do i think i am in love with this guy im so crazy over it and CANNOT get over him. like idn wat to do, i dont want anyone else so dont say go look for someone else because i dont want anyone. i just honestly need some advice and a friend to talk to about this, to help me get through..please?<3
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Get an aim and talk to me about it. I Can help. What I want to say is that it is not true love unless the other loves you back. He is not worth you. You want love and he doesn't. Do not cry over some guy that doesn't even care. I am not saying to find someone else. It is healthy to cope with your feelings and cry. Eventually you will get over it and maybe when you least expect it, another guy will come along. If you need any more help let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Falling for the player and getting your heart broken? I've been there and it sucks. He basically did the same things to as your guy did to you. He would tell me that he loved me and that he only wanted to be with me. While he was telling other people he didn't even have a girlfriend and that I was just another girl that had a crush on him. It hurts to see him and hear about him but believe me you're better off without him. He's just going to do the same thing again. You should move on. I'm not saying its going to be easy because its not. Its probably going to be hard. You deserve better than to have your feelings played with. Cut all contact with him, do not have conversations about him! Basically try your best to forget him. As of now he is nothing to you and is not worth your tears or your time. He actually never was. Please do yourself a favor and move on.
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ill be honest with you this sounds like my last relationship. ive been known to have this nice guy attitude as well. and some called me a player but that didnt make sense. i dated this girl for like 6 months. and she told me i was her everything. i believed her and trusted her. she was innocent and we didnt have sex. i thought she was innocent and all but she flirted alot while we were together. im a jealous person too. and it got to the point where it hurt. her friend told me she had sex with other guys during our relationship and it hurts. she tells everyone im a lier and that i cheated on her.
so i was stuck on her after i dumped her. she started crying and everyone was calling me saying i broke her heart which hurt.
so please move on for me, and for you. id hate to see you alone. hes missing out on a hell of a girl. find someone else. <3
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