My name is Baylee and I am going to become a reporter someday and have my own advice column. I give great advice and love helping people. Sorry I do not have a picture because apparently the file is too big to upload? Haha :)
E-mail: eelyab24@yahoo.com
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Location: Orlando, Florida
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Member Since: June 3, 2009
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i have hard time trusting people and hard time opening up but i think i like the way i am cause i get to protect myself a lot, but at times i wish i had someone to trust and share my secrets with and it makes me sad and lonely but something tells me not to trust anyone and keep things myself because i feel like if i do share things with other people i end up getting hurt like i always do what should i do about this trust issue? its really hurting me but at the same time im okay with it when people ask me personal questions i just think they just trying to get information or they gonna blab it to someone else so i always lie AND i always think people are lying to me, it hurts when people confide me with their secrets and problems but i cant do the same to others (link)
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Hi!
Not be able to trust many people is not an issue. It has more good qualities than bad. I tell everyone everything and it comes back to bite me. I learned from that and there are only a couple people that I trust. My best friend only trusts me and one other person. You never know in life who you can really trust until you really really know them. I would say to you, do not worry about it. Just find one person that you can trust because you do need to express your feelings. So all you need is ONE person to do that. I hope I helped :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Ok so i still am in love with my ex and he doesnt know it ,but he has a girlfriend and she lives soo far away , but he talks to her on the phone all the time
do you think he loves her? (link)
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If he is with her even though she lives far away then I am sure he really cares about her. Love? I personally do not know him so I would not know. I am sorry but he is with this girl so you may want to find someone else. Maybe if/when they break up you can tell him how you feel. Just do not try to tear him apart from his girlfriend. I know it is hard to get over and I am not saying to, you can not control your feelings but just do not stress over it. If it does not happen then you two are not meant to be :( If you need anything else let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Hey,
I am 16f. I had this one friend for a long time previously, we were BEST friends, she even said so. Until she decided to give me up, for my brother... sad sad.. anyhow, ever since we first knew eachother, she has copied almost EVERYTHING she could think of. When I got a new sweater,she would have to go out and but one that weekend. When I got a laptop, she got the EXACT same one. When i got a certain binder, she got the same one, and when I got a dog, she had to go and buy a dog the next week. Now, I am not rich or anything, but her family IS sort of richer than we are, they have bigger,fancier items,and a much wealthier lifestyle.. but anyhow, I don't care at all. I am happy with who I am, the lifestyle I live, and such. But it drives me INSANE when she has to copy everything I do... She even works at the SAME place I do, she never even considered getting a job until I did! Oh, and when I bought a vehicle bout six months ago, she was SOOO close to buying an exact replica! (I am sure she STILL might (get her parents too).) Yes. Insane I know. But the most recent one, that just happened today is burning a frustration hole in my chest. She walked into my room, because she practically lives here, since she is (blech) dating my brother, and she finds my resume on my desk and starts reading it. She asked what I was applying for, and I didn't even want to tell her because I know she is going to apply for it, so long as I do.. arg! .. And I know the resume she applys to get the job with,will be (you guessed it) an exact replica... Sure maybe it will have a few things that apply to her, but I KNOW SHE WILL COPY IT! and it is BURNING A HOLE in my chest... I really dont know what to do or how to excape it. She sees something I have or wrote in school (yes. she is in some of my classes and in the same grade), and she just pounces on it. What do I do? I am SO sure she knows I was going to apply for the park job with this resume.. and now.. her resume is going to look the same. ANd I may end up stuck working with her.. While she sucks faces with my brother. If you know how I am feeling right now.. :( .. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Oh my! That is a problem, I feel very bad for you :(
If you must work there for the money then work while you are applying for other jobs and DO NOT let her find out about it. Maybe try talking to your brother about it or tell her straight up that you think she copies EVERYTHING you do. You do not have to be her friend, you don't want to. Just manage to deal with her until they break up. I doubt it will last long she seems a bit crazy. Only talk to her when you have to and don't share any information with her like where you work or what you bought. Try to be as secretive as possible. If you have any more questions on doing this then let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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okay so i go out with this boii i really like him alot . but me and ma ex love eachother still . He said that we can go back out on the last day of sckool and continue through the summer again . Idk what to do because i love ma ex but really like my new boyfriend he is super sweet and funny . I dont know what to do . Please help ... (link)
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Hi!
Well you said you and your ex love each other and that is strong. If you really really loved each other you would not be broken up. Just think who you like more. Also if you really loved him you would not have posted this question, you would know the answer. I think that if it is going great with the new guy then choose him but do not use him until you and your ex get back together. Just think of the good and bad between both. Who do you think about more? Who do you smile most with? Just ask yourself these questions and good luck! If you need more help then hit me up on my inbox!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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ok so i have an issue im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend everyone says its bc i dont make it odvious i want one but how do i do that im also not that great at flirting bc im too busy trying not to make a fool out of myself i want to know how to flirt the right way to get a guys attention without looking slutty or desperate and i dont want to hear the basic laugh and smile bc thats not specific enough for me i need to know what to do and fast so that when i go into highschool i can make an awsome impression! (link)
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Easy! I use to flirt like crazy! Haha. Okay well of course you do a cute laugh and flirty smile but there is way more to it. Act confident but not conceited. Be touchy but not slutty. Don't talk about the usual topics, go deeper. Ask who he likes and joke around with him. This is kinda hard to explain, sometimes it depends on the guy. If you have any more questions let me know! Good luck.
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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so lately my crush/freind/stand partner in orchestra (his name is alex) has been treating me a little bit diffrently than he has been like today when he wanted to get my attention (he ussually just says my name) he touched my shoulder yesterday when we were walking to our lockers (they'r just a set of lockers apart) and i told him (becouse i was mad at 2 people that day) that i dont get mad too easily but when i do get mad i get really mad then i told him that he doesnt want to get me mad so then (jokenly) he called me a loser then when he said that he was just joking he touched my shoulder and one day it was really cold out in the morning and we were waiting to go into the school and i just had short sleeves and jeans on and i was shivering so he said that i could wear his jacket i said no and today during orchestra when i told him (becouse he asked) that i dont have a bf he told me that he is gonna ask a girl out but i have no idea who she is but is there a possibility that its me today when we were handing back our sight reading music (he ussually just says my name or puts the music on the stand) but he put the sheet music on my head instead of just saying my name so i would know that the music from the people in the stand behind me needs to be handed up and when i was handing it to the person in the stand in front of mine and alex's i said (while laughing) hey sorta like a why did u do that hey not like a annoyed or mad hey i am not new at the school and him and i have been good freinds since the start of the school year.him i talk alot more to him than i have with my bff reenay this week i have probobly talked to him more than i have to reenay all school year.he does get really annoyed and mad (he does not get annoyed or mad easily at all or very often) if when i am talking to him and one of his other freinds interupes me but he does not get really annoyed if i interupt him or the person that he is talking to but i try not to do that.he asked me how my bf is doing then i told him that i dont have a bf and he said oh and that he is gonna ask a girl out then he started to act a little diffrently around me (link)
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He likes you for sure! If he asks you about your boyfriend and tells you he is going to ask a girl out then he is totally into you! The only question is do you like him? If you need more help let me know.
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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Hi!!
Well, things haven't been going to great. My ex broke up with me for my friend (ex friend) . He liked me, well I think he did, I'm not quite sure. I warned him about my friend Amy, she likes a few others guys plus him. I still care for my ex, he's great and I really like him. :/ Well, Amy just told me today that she doesn't like him at all, she loves this other guy, Amy said if the other guy (Matt) doesn't break up with his girl friend she will stay with my ex. I AM so mad at her for this... she says he doesn't talk...well YES he does!! He's shy, but he does talk , to me.Well I don't now whats going on with him, he hasn't been texting me back anymore because he thinks I lied to him about Amy.Well, I think that's it. I really care about this guy and I don't want Amy to hurt him.. what should I do to resolve all of this?? Also do you think he still has any feelings for me?? He told me he loved me before..so I'm confused. Please help and thanks in advance! (link)
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Hey :)
I think you should call it off with Amy because a real friend would not go out with your boyfriend. She does not sound like a good girlfriend either. Do not be rude to her or start stuff but simply only talk to her when needed, slowly drift away. As for the ex, you need to talk to him, person, text, call, IM, whatever works for you. Tell him you do not want to be friends with Amy anymore because you know what she does. Tell him everything you know, after all you and Amy will not be friends anymore so it will not hurt that friendship. Make sure you tell her you are saying that as someone who still cares about him and does not want to see him get hurt. You have to make him believe you. Do whatever you can to convince him that she is no good without sounding jealous. It seems to me that if he told you he loved you he may still have feelings for you. It also sound like he does because he talked to you more because he was probably more comfortable around you. He is not talking to you because he is in denial. I know exactly what you mean because the same thing happened to me. Only my story was that I liked this guy A LOT and I still was not completely over him and this girl who I thought was my friend was suppose to "hook us up" well she ended up going out with him a couple days later. So I was not friends with her anymore but it did take me a very long time to get over the guy but we have been friends since. I do not believe that friends should date a friends ex unless they think they are in love enough to risk their friendship. However I do think it is okay if you both liked a guy and he choose her. Then you should not be mad at her because he choose her and obviously he did not like you. I hope I helped. If you have any more questions let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Does Walt Disney World in Orlando Florida offer free or discounted tickets for disabled and developmentally delayed children? I want to go on vacation at Walt Disney World in Orlando, FL but my little brother is mentally handicapped and we were wondering if we could get a discounted ticket for him since he is unable to ride all of the attractions and what have you.
Any help please... (link)
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I live in Orlando Florida and I am pretty sure they do not offer discounts for the disabled. They do however offer them to special needs kids I believe. Maybe you should check out their website and go to the discounts section and see the terms. That should help, or you could even call them and just ask. This is not a very good site to post this question on. This is if you are looking for advice. You should post this on yahooanswers.com you get a ton of answers from a bunch of people in minutes. I I hope this helped!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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well this is going to be long haha. so my nd my ex josh met about 6 months ago. and we connected right away. i liked him he liked me. we were so into eachother. i heard he had a rep, a player. i brought it up, he explained himself, that girls take his nice guy aditude as a player. so i got over that and belived him, there was my first mistake. as weeks went by we had a lot of feelings. and then the sex came into the picture. i told him he is not mine so i dont want to. of course he said babe what do you think weve been doing for the last month other then being together. and i liked him so much iwas just like if were together why the hell not. so we did. then we talked a lot all the time 5 hour long phone conversations about just random stuff. then i noticed his whorish atidude and i didnt like it. i get jealous so easily. but i didnt say a word because i know he would just walk, and so then i kept all my feelings bottled up. and then wonderign if were even together. and then i just couldnt take him flirting with other girls so i told him goodbye to notcall me to block me on everything we have contact online and, the thing that broke my heart even more is, he actually for once listened.. and just let me go.. i think taht hurt me more then the goodbye. because after i didnt have him to talk to everyday, my world came to an end, crying non stop thinkin about him non stop. but then i got over it then i saw him with another girl, brought me back to our days, amde me sad, soon to find out he told his bestfriend (wich is my friend too) we were never together, and that hurt SO bad that he denies that we werent together, then he told my bestfriend taht i was crazy nd a fake cryer and hes only known me for a month. that broke my heart even more. so then my bestfriend messaged him and basicully he said hed never talk about me and blah and that it makes him sad we wont talk and blah and he said hed hit me up, that one sentence "ill deff hit her up i like seeing how shes doing" gave my heart so much hope, but then he never contacted me.. and hasnt unblocked me on msn..idn what to do i think i am in love with this guy im so crazy over it and CANNOT get over him. like idn wat to do, i dont want anyone else so dont say go look for someone else because i dont want anyone. i just honestly need some advice and a friend to talk to about this, to help me get through..please? (link)
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Get an aim and talk to me about it. I Can help. What I want to say is that it is not true love unless the other loves you back. He is not worth you. You want love and he doesn't. Do not cry over some guy that doesn't even care. I am not saying to find someone else. It is healthy to cope with your feelings and cry. Eventually you will get over it and maybe when you least expect it, another guy will come along. If you need any more help let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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my dog was like attacking a baby bunny and so ive kept it inside for about 2 or 3 days now. i gave it some water through a water bottle thing, but what can i feed him? he hass to eat but he barely drinks. advice please? oh yeah, hes not bleeding or anything on the outside..but i think my dog paralyzed his back legs because he cant move any of that, he just drags his back end around (link)
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hey :)
Aww the poor bunny, I breed bunnies. Okay feed it romaine lettuce or the mixed kind. No iceburg lettuce or celery because it is too watery and it will make them sick and they will have the runs. They love all vegetables. You may want to try bunny food. They LOVE timothy hay. No alfalfa! Trust me on this I am an expert on bunnies. You may want to take it to the vet and see what hey say. When it gets older give it water through a bowl. Milk in a bottle for now. DO NOT release it back into the wild or it will die. No only because of its back legs but because once touched by a human it will not be accepted. Besides this bunny relies on you to feed it and take care of it now. It will not know what to do if it is in the wild. I suggest you find a wildlife conservation to care for it or you could. Give it lots of love. I rescued a baby squirrel that fell out of its nest and lost an eye. I had it for a while until one day I went out there and it got so excited to see me that he had a heart attack and died :( Take very good care. If you need any more help please message me. Also please keep me up to date on the bunny and how it is doing. Thank you!
Sincerely, Baylee
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I'm really interested in getting a dwarf rabbit. I bought a book about the care and keeping of pet rabbits, and it said that it was ideal to keep the door to the cage open eventually, so that the rabbit was free to come and go and wander about the house as it pleased. My question is, is this really necessary? My mom isn't a fan of pets wandering about the house, and I haven't totally convinced her that a rabbit is a good idea. Of course I would let my bunny out to be with me when I was around the house, but would it be a problem if I kept him/her in the cage with the door shut at other times? (link)
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No you do not have to do that. The whole point is to let them get daily exercise. You can let them roam around the room, house, fenced yard, bathroom, or porch. Where there is a confined area. The do need a good size cage. Most bunnies are very lovable and attention starved so it will need attention daily maybe more than once. I breed mini rex's and I own a show dwarf bunny. They are all very sweet. Make sure you get a bunny while it is a baby so it grows with you and while it is a baby suffocate it with love and attention or it will NOT be sweet. Dwarf breeds especially because being a small breed they are more defensive. Also do not do not do not! Get a bunny from the petshop. They normally are not very sweet or they are mixed breeds. I would suggest finding a breeder to buy from. Bunnies range from 15-25 dollars any bunny above that price with no pedigree or quality is not worth more. You can find a ton of bunnies of all breeds on craigslist.org Just choose your area and it will show all the ads in that area. By the way, you can liter train your bunnies. Make sure there are no cords where the bunny is hopping. I hope I helped you. Please send me a message if you have any more questions about your bunny. I am an expert Haha :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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should i go to my best friends birthday party where almost everyone hates me? (link)
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Don't let them get to you or win. This is YOUR best friends birthday party and if anyone has the right to be there it is you! Support your best friend. Ignore everyone and hangout with her. If you need further help I am here. Hit my inbox up!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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What are some ways I can get the girl I like to fall for me?
I'm 13(m)
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hey there :)
Okay, I am sorry but you can not MAKE someone fall for you no matter what you do. Just be friends with her and eventually ask her out and see how it goes. Message me for further help :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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(my life is somewhat like the twilight series. so dont sue me for copyright if i use the characters names) right, so i have this friend, jake. we met 3 or 4 years ago, back when he was in fifth grade and i was in seventh. we talked on the phone a lot, and he annoyed me somewhat. but hes a really sweet guy and he eventually asked me to marry him, (its a middle school game-type-thing. obviously, we're not really married.) but i still call him my husband and he calls me his wife. its cute.
anywho, i met my current boyfriend, edward, 2 years ago. he broke up with me twice, but now we've been dating for 5 1/2 months, and as far as i can tell, we're not breaking up anytime soon. back when i was going through a really rough patch with edward, (because he had broken up with me abruptly and didnt talk to me for 6 or 7 months,) jake was there for me. we hung out a few times, and i always talked to him on the phone. he was my rock. and then when i got back together with edward, he was pretty upset, (he had allegedly fallen in love with me during that time). so anytime i vented to him about getting into a fight with edward, he bashes him. at first i didnt really care, then it started annoying me, and edward too. one time, he texted me while i was at edwards house, asking if i would cheat on edward with him. and edward saw the text! he was so pissed. but he called jake and tried to make it clear that he didnt want jake saying things like that anymore.
for a while, jake stopped. then the other night he was on aim, and i had just had another fight with edward. i vented, and he was bashing, and i finally told him to stop, but he wouldnt. he said i needed to "ditch the vampire, because the wolf is better," and i needed to "change the ending in the book". i yelled at him, and he got upset and logged off.
jake is a really good friend of mine, but he just gets so annoying! hes bashing my vampire and trying to get me to cheat on him or dump him, and just says so much shit it gets on my nerves. but i miss him! i dont know how to convince him that i will NEVER leave my vampire, and that he just needs to stop already! what should i do?????? please help! (link)
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Hey :)
First off I want to say the whole Twilight themed story is VERY cute :) Okay look, I know this is a really great friend you do not want to loose but you may have to :( He is 2 years younger than you to start off with so he is going to be a little less mature than you. Also I do not think that a "FRIENDSHIP" with a guy that wants a "RELATIONSHIP with you is going to work. It seems to me that it will take a while for him to get over it, it has already been over 2 years! If you must be friends with him then tell him straight up that you are not planning on leaving your boyfriend anytime soon and that you do not like the way he acts about the situation. Tell him you like being "FRIENDS" with him and that is what you want him there for. So he can help an support you through everything including relationships. If he does not like it then the honest truth is that maybe you should not be close friends with him. The weird part is he will never truly stop liking you, he may only hide it from you. I do not think being best friends with this guy is good, especially when you are devoted to your boyfriend. You may not be loosing much. If he was a good friend he would not try to break you two up when you are happy. However whatever you decide to do at the end, do not use Jake as a "backup" unless you really like him. What I mean is if you and Edward break up then do not go running to Jake as anything more than a friend. It kind of gives him the upper hand. Anyways good luck with Edward and Jake. Do not worry about all the fights you have had, all real relationships do. You have lasted a long time :)I think this is about all I can say. Please feel free to send me a message if you have any more questions. I am glad to help!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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hi again,
i hope you dont mind me bugging you again!
thanks so much for your answer/response! 9which this is about!) so you think i should just, not completely like stop being his friend, but stop liking him. cause when i told him it was juat a bit after school started, and now its the end of the year, and weve hung out all year! I do try to tell my self to forget about him but i end up thinking about him more. can you tell me some signs in which he would possible give, if he did like me? thanks! (link)
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Hey!
No you are not bugging me. I am happy to help. A person can not control their feelings, if you like him you like him. Do not force yourself to get over him but most likely you will. DO NOT stop being his friend. Oh and signs that he likes you include, touchy feeling, calling texting all the time, smiles sweetly to you, or as you to go somewhere. There are many signs so it is hard to help you with that but what you could do is tell me how he acts around you or go to school and when you come home tell me the story. I should then be able to tell. Get back with me soon :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Wel, before I ask my wuestion you should know a little about my situation. I really absolutely like this guy and all my friends know, including him. However, one of my friends that was probably the first one to know has been flirting with him A LOT lately. I told her last week if she could stop because she knows how much I like him, but she keeps doing it. What should I do? (link)
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hey :)
I do not think that is a very good friend you have there. It would be different if she liked him to begin with but she has not according to you. As the others have said it is a competition so do not let her win! Beat her to it and flirt with him, he will choose who he likes. If your friend continues to do this, call her bluff. I hope this has helped :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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i'm waiting for my ex. and he always thinks i'm flirting with other guys, but i really don't try to..i guess thats just my way of being friendly. i don't want him to think this so how can i still be friendly with guys without coming off as flirty?
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Hello :)
I understand your problem and I think that all you need to do to be friendly is welcome them if they come over and mingle but not when your boyfriend is not around or he will start to get that idea. Do not giggle a lot or be too close. Just mingle nothing more. Oh and if you boyfriend gets that paranoid and jealous, your lucky :) he must really like you. I hope I helped in some way :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do? (link)
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Hi!
I am so glad to help you out and personally I think you should leave it alone. :( I know it's tough to say but if he did not like you last time he probably does not like you this time. If he did he should show some signs. Trust me on this one sweetie, it has happened to me with this guy named Gabe. Same EXACT situation and it never worked out. Now we are not even friends because we went to different schools. You'll find someone else do not worry. Also these other people are wrong, I believe you can possibly be in love with someone in middle school. I personally have a friend who is married to her middle school boyfriend. They are a very happy couple with 2 kids :)I really hope this has helped you. Good luck with everything!
ADDITIONAL DETAILS!
Hey it is me again, I forgot to tell you that normally girls get a gut feeling if a guy likes them. Also you can tell if he likes you if he has acted any different or sweeter since the last time he did not like you. Also I do not recommend flat out asking him if he likes you, it is a bit creepy and a hard situation to put him in. I would say do it the Elementary school way and get friends to find out but make it completely look like your friends were just asking out of the blue. You do not want him to know you put them up to it. Maybe your friends could say something like "hey, I bet you like .... don't you? You seem to act like you it, do you?" or "Do you like... because you act like you do?"
Somewhere around those lines. Okay that is it, if you need anything send me another message :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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