i'm waiting for my ex. and he always thinks i'm flirting with other guys, but i really don't try to..i guess thats just my way of being friendly. i don't want him to think this so how can i still be friendly with guys without coming off as flirty?
17/f
I understand your problem and I think that all you need to do to be friendly is welcome them if they come over and mingle but not when your boyfriend is not around or he will start to get that idea. Do not giggle a lot or be too close. Just mingle nothing more. Oh and if you boyfriend gets that paranoid and jealous, your lucky :) he must really like you. I hope I helped in some way :)
Sami143 answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 10:55 am: This is really hard because with the way girls are we just pretty much always come off as flirty. Even if we dont mean to. So maybe try not to talk to so many guys or dont hug as many of them or whatever you do.
Just dont giggle a lot around them and you could even try to explain this to your ex that your just being friendly and that you really care about him and you wouldnt do that to him.
sia answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 5:36 am: heyyyy...id say try to not be touchy or playful,like dont hug them as a greeting or pay heaps of attention to them.make sure your ex bf is the one that you pay the most attention.try not to hang out with them so much and maybe try to not talk about guys to your ex cuz that could make him jealous [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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