Wel, before I ask my wuestion you should know a little about my situation. I really absolutely like this guy and all my friends know, including him. However, one of my friends that was probably the first one to know has been flirting with him A LOT lately. I told her last week if she could stop because she knows how much I like him, but she keeps doing it. What should I do?
I do not think that is a very good friend you have there. It would be different if she liked him to begin with but she has not according to you. As the others have said it is a competition so do not let her win! Beat her to it and flirt with him, he will choose who he likes. If your friend continues to do this, call her bluff. I hope this has helped :)
Sami143 answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 1:39 pm: Its a girl thing. if they know that no one likes him they dont want anything to do with him. But if someone likes it they jump on him. (not literally ha) Its just a competition thing.
Talk to her again and tell her that if she wants to be a true friend that she needs to back off.
Make your move on him, talk and flirt with him and if she doesnt back off then she wasnt a good friend anyways.
benelax answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 9:21 am: spend time with him more. its war now. if she was a good friend she would be sincere and respect your request. [ benelax's advice column | Ask benelax A Question ]
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