Member Since: June 3, 2009
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well this is going to be long haha. so my nd my ex josh met about 6 months ago. and we connected right away. i liked him he liked me. we were so into eachother. i heard he had a rep, a player. i brought it up, he explained himself, that girls take his nice guy aditude as a player. so i got over that and belived him, there was my first mistake. as weeks went by we had a lot of feelings. and then the sex came into the picture. i told him he is not mine so i dont want to. of course he said babe what do you think weve been doing for the last month other then being together. and i liked him so much iwas just like if were together why the hell not. so we did. then we talked a lot all the time 5 hour long phone conversations about just random stuff. then i noticed his whorish atidude and i didnt like it. i get jealous so easily. but i didnt say a word because i know he would just walk, and so then i kept all my feelings bottled up. and then wonderign if were even together. and then i just couldnt take him flirting with other girls so i told him goodbye to notcall me to block me on everything we have contact online and, the thing that broke my heart even more is, he actually for once listened.. and just let me go.. i think taht hurt me more then the goodbye. because after i didnt have him to talk to everyday, my world came to an end, crying non stop thinkin about him non stop. but then i got over it then i saw him with another girl, brought me back to our days, amde me sad, soon to find out he told his bestfriend (wich is my friend too) we were never together, and that hurt SO bad that he denies that we werent together, then he told my bestfriend taht i was crazy nd a fake cryer and hes only known me for a month. that broke my heart even more. so then my bestfriend messaged him and basicully he said hed never talk about me and blah and that it makes him sad we wont talk and blah and he said hed hit me up, that one sentence "ill deff hit her up i like seeing how shes doing" gave my heart so much hope, but then he never contacted me.. and hasnt unblocked me on msn..idn what to do i think i am in love with this guy im so crazy over it and CANNOT get over him. like idn wat to do, i dont want anyone else so dont say go look for someone else because i dont want anyone. i just honestly need some advice and a friend to talk to about this, to help me get through..please? (link)
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ill be honest with you this sounds like my last relationship. ive been known to have this nice guy attitude as well. and some called me a player but that didnt make sense. i dated this girl for like 6 months. and she told me i was her everything. i believed her and trusted her. she was innocent and we didnt have sex. i thought she was innocent and all but she flirted alot while we were together. im a jealous person too. and it got to the point where it hurt. her friend told me she had sex with other guys during our relationship and it hurts. she tells everyone im a lier and that i cheated on her.
so i was stuck on her after i dumped her. she started crying and everyone was calling me saying i broke her heart which hurt.
so please move on for me, and for you. id hate to see you alone. hes missing out on a hell of a girl. find someone else.
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Wel, before I ask my wuestion you should know a little about my situation. I really absolutely like this guy and all my friends know, including him. However, one of my friends that was probably the first one to know has been flirting with him A LOT lately. I told her last week if she could stop because she knows how much I like him, but she keeps doing it. What should I do? (link)
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spend time with him more. its war now. if she was a good friend she would be sincere and respect your request.
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I really messed up. My friend told me that my crush, let's call him J, said that i need to leave him alone and to never talk to him again. I did the wrong thing and told him that he was a jerk without confirming that he indeed said what my friend said J said. When he messaged me back, he sounded really mad and ready to press harrassment charges on me if i wrote back. I wrote back saying sorry and that i am misunderstood at home and mistreated at school and i dont think that he will believe me.
What can i do now? (link)
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Listen. This is thr only advice im giving. Your friend is really caniving(no offense) to do that to you. Tell him the real story of why you accted the way you did.
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Me and the guy I'm with will be together for 3 years this October.. I was thinking of getting him a ring.. nothing too flashy/showy.. a simple band of some sort, preferably silver... and the problem is, I dont know his ring size and I want it to be a surprise.. so how would I go about finding that out without making it completely obvious??
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ok so this is a last minute suggestion. the last answer was very good. i would do that. and then you have to guess pretty close to his actual ring size. so if you dont get the right size, take it to get resized. its not ruining the element of surprise. i think the gesture is what matters most and he knows what he means to you. Congrats on 3 yrs
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i stay with my babydaddy but we not together.he broke up with me on my birthday last year cause he though i was mad cause he work that day.which was sad cause that was not true.nut he was my first or everything including virginity.but i feel like he using me.lik if i say i won't give him money he would kick me out.and othe girls he talk to they don't give him money and he respect them more then me and im the mother of his chilld.he call me stupid slow.one day he love me the next he say he can't wait till i get out his life.then i found out he guve girls money.and im working hard giving him money and he don't help me out.he not even working.and when he go out of town i let him stay at my mom place.and he let gurls pick him up over there.and he tell me oh we ain;t together.i no we not together but y u doing that.and we have sex i give him a blow job.and i found out he having unprotected sex and he laugh and says we not togetther why u geeting mad for.i mean you my first that took my virginity why he doing this to me.its lik every time i stand up 4 myself he want to kick me out or something.ploease help me (link)
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he doesnt deserve you really. you give him so much and get nothing in return. I know you have a child with him but you need to leave. even tho you 2 are not together you have bigger things to worry about then other women. he brought a child into this world with you. he needs to show respect for the mother of his child. im just angered by this. sorry if this doesnt help. if you want someone to talk to just let me know.
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Recently i started liking this guy and he is what you say CUTE the problem is i only see him like once a week or more when i see him playing baseball and never seems to look my way he will see me then turn away i like him and i want him to like me too but how do i get him to notice me without overdoing it please help me
Cathy
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im a guy who plays sports this happened with my gf. when i played baseball this season i would see her at all my games. she would look at me and only at me. i would look away when she did so that she didnt know i was looking. Just keep looking his way and if your bold go up to him and give him your number. if your nervous, bring a friend. it always makes a guy feel wanted and special when a groupp of girls come up to them after a game. hope i could help.
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