Hello I am just a girl trying to find her place in the world. I am happy to give advice just as I am happy to ask questions when I need help. So if anyone needs advice, do not be afraid to ask! =D
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how do i get fast internet on both my laptop and desktop for a cheap price
on the laptop i want internet that i can take anywhere
so do i need a card for the laptop or can i use something for both of my computers
-keep in mind i want something cheap (link)
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Hi! Well, maybe you can pay for internet on the desktop, then buy a wirless router for your laptop. The router allows for internet access on you laptop without having to pay for it. The internet is basically shared between your desktop and laptop. But unfortunately, with the wireless router, you cannot take the internet everywhere. Sorry. Best of luck.
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my boyfriend dumped me for this girl, but that was like a year ago is it okay to still be upset or jealous? (link)
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Hi! No its normal, I still think about stuff like that too. However, try and find someone else to occupy your mind, if he dumped you, trust me, he is probably not that great of a guy anyway. A little last year my crush went out with my best friend, to this day I stillthink about it and sometimes I get upset, but I have moved on. You should to. Hope this helps! Best of luck to you! Feel free to ask me questions any time.
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ok so i have an issue im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend everyone says its bc i dont make it odvious i want one but how do i do that im also not that great at flirting bc im too busy trying not to make a fool out of myself i want to know how to flirt the right way to get a guys attention without looking slutty or desperate and i dont want to hear the basic laugh and smile bc thats not specific enough for me i need to know what to do and fast so that when i go into highschool i can make an awsome impression! (link)
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Hey! I was reading your question and noticed we have A LOT in common. Pretty muc all you said is what I had to go through last year (I am 15 now). I know what you mean, you do not want to say something stupid, but it's hard to think of the right thing to say. Anyways, if you have a really close guy friend, you should see if he wants to practice with you. Just talk to him like you would talk to anyone, then after, ask him what you should do to make yourself sound better (but nothin slutty of course). But have girl friends there too to evaluate you. Heres a very important flirting tip - Be interested in what the guy has to say. If you do not look interested, he will not be interested in you. If you need any other tips or hve any other questions feel free to ask me! Good Luck and I hope this helped!
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so lately my crush/freind/stand partner in orchestra (his name is alex) has been treating me a little bit diffrently than he has been like today when he wanted to get my attention (he ussually just says my name) he touched my shoulder yesterday when we were walking to our lockers (they'r just a set of lockers apart) and i told him (becouse i was mad at 2 people that day) that i dont get mad too easily but when i do get mad i get really mad then i told him that he doesnt want to get me mad so then (jokenly) he called me a loser then when he said that he was just joking he touched my shoulder and one day it was really cold out in the morning and we were waiting to go into the school and i just had short sleeves and jeans on and i was shivering so he said that i could wear his jacket i said no and today during orchestra when i told him (becouse he asked) that i dont have a bf he told me that he is gonna ask a girl out but i have no idea who she is but is there a possibility that its me today when we were handing back our sight reading music (he ussually just says my name or puts the music on the stand) but he put the sheet music on my head instead of just saying my name so i would know that the music from the people in the stand behind me needs to be handed up and when i was handing it to the person in the stand in front of mine and alex's i said (while laughing) hey sorta like a why did u do that hey not like a annoyed or mad hey i am not new at the school and him and i have been good freinds since the start of the school year.him i talk alot more to him than i have with my bff reenay this week i have probobly talked to him more than i have to reenay all school year.he does get really annoyed and mad (he does not get annoyed or mad easily at all or very often) if when i am talking to him and one of his other freinds interupes me but he does not get really annoyed if i interupt him or the person that he is talking to but i try not to do that.he asked me how my bf is doing then i told him that i dont have a bf and he said oh and that he is gonna ask a girl out then he started to act a little diffrently around me (link)
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Hi1 So I think Alex might like you. If he has been doing stuff he wouldn't normally do like tap your shoulder instead of call you, or ask you if yu want his jacket, he might. LIke you said about when you talk to his friends, he interupts, that might be his way of jealousy and protection. He does not necessarily want you to talk to him. So I am not sure, but I think he likes you. (By the way, if you guys have been good friends for a while wouldn't he know if you have a boyfriend? So he is probably dropping a hint) Hope this helps you! Good Luck!
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what is the style of this top called?
http://www.picamatic.com/show/2009/05/18/01/33/3673606_600x820.jpg (link)
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Hi! The shirt is a combination of a surplice, and a crop top. A crop top because of the length, and a surplice because of the style/appearance. Hope this helps! =D
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i'm new to this and i dunno how to send a private message so im just going to thank you through question thingy. i jst want to say thanks for your advice, i hate making people upset, worried or whatever(im a freak, i know lol), so every small thing i think i do wrong i get help to make it better :P i really appreciate your help =]hope i could help you sometime if you have a question. cya :] (link)
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no problem, I am new to this to so its ok. I know what you mean, sometimes I do not like saying things at all in fear of the response because I do not want to make anyone mad. So its ok! Anytime!
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16/f. [kinda long sorry]
i play softball for my school, well tonight at my game i was sliding into home and i went to slide. when i did i collided with the catcher. my ankle basically jammed up against her leg, when she went to move to get the ball she stepped on my ankle. It's now all puffy,really red, and super bruised. I was carried off the field. [safe by the way..ha] i ended up playing 1st again next inning, however i was in serious pain, but we had no other 1st basemen. Now, i can barely walk and i can't even put a sock on. However, i've broken my ankle before, and it looks nothing like that. anyone have any idea on what it might be? (link)
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Hi! Ya, it could be a bad sprain, but also a fracture. I play softball for my school too and th same thing happened to me except I was in a pickle between 1st and 2nd base and I collided with the 2nd baseman and they fell on my ankle. When I took it in, they said I had a bad fracture, so you may have that. You should get it checked. =D Hope this helps you!
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I really messed up. My friend told me that my crush, let's call him J, said that i need to leave him alone and to never talk to him again. I did the wrong thing and told him that he was a jerk without confirming that he indeed said what my friend said J said. When he messaged me back, he sounded really mad and ready to press harrassment charges on me if i wrote back. I wrote back saying sorry and that i am misunderstood at home and mistreated at school and i dont think that he will believe me.
What can i do now? (link)
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Hey, look. This stuff happens. I had a friend who was like that. Just forget about, if she was really a good friend, she would not tell you this kind of stuff. You should just go up to him and talk to him. Say that "someone" told you he never wanted to talk to you again. I do not see why he wouldn't understand. Just tell him how you feel. Hope this helps you =D GOOD LUCK!
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Okay so im fifteen and there is this girl thats 13 and she really likes me and i like her, but is 15 too old 2 b dating a 13 year old? well, were secretly going out with each other, nobody else knows cuz we dont want our parents knowing :] but we've been caught by both our parents hugging all the time but they dont seem to mind.. much :p her parents dont, mine does :S anyway were ALWAYS holding hands and hugging when were alone but when were in public we hold hands secretly, noone see's ;]i dont think she wants to kiss yet though. i always kiss her on the cheek, head and neck though and she loves it but im just wondering about this.. she went out with 2 of my other friends but they broke up for stupid reasons.. they wernt really that nice to her either.. like, the 12 year old (as tall as me) broke up with her for not seeing him in 2 days cuz she was inside sick, they were going out for 3 months at d time(he only gave her 1 hug within them 3 months).. then the 13 year old talked too dirty all the time so she broke up with him in d first week.. but neither of them gave her much hugs or held her hand or anything like that.. she told me that im the best bf she ever seen or had and she's always hugging me and when we have to leave each other she always lets me kiss her cheek if were alone, or if were in public she hugs me and whispers 'i love you' and 'i miss you already' after i say it first. she said that im so much better than the other 2 guys aswell... but there is a few things thats weiirrdd... we live right next to each other, so if either of us are out the backgarden we can see each other from our windows. but when ever she's at her window or im at mine she waves at first and smiles at me, but then she completely ignores me when i try to call her again.. i catch her sneaking a look at me every now and then though.. like if i call her loads she'll answer but if i call her like less than 5-10 times she'll ignore me.. but whenever i have to close my window i blow her a kiss and she would blow one back (most of d time), sometimes she just looks on the ground and ignores that i did it.. oh and my brother asked her would she kiss me (i didnt ask him to) and she said no.. but she kissed the other two guys when they asked her (i dont mind tho, im just wondering why), and she says she likes me more :P we've liked each other for 1-2 months now but were only going out for 5 days today, haha :P but she kissed the 13 year old on their 5th day ;O =P its not even that i want a kiss that bad its just.. you know what i meen :P
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Q1. Is 15 too old to date a 13?
Q2. Do you know why she ignores me like that?
Q3. The kiss thing :P
Oh and one last thing.. when ever i have to leave her, even though we had a really good time, i still feel worried that i annoyed her or i didnt say goodbye properly or something... even though i probably did... i know these things are only SMALL problems but im just wondering :] thanks. (link)
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Hey! I do not think 15 is too old to be dating a 13 year old. I know a lot about this kind of stuff because it goes on all around me. I am 15 as well. So anyways, thats only two years. She probably ignores you because she feels like you do not cal her enough. (Believe me you call her PLENTY! =D)you have to consider she is 13. Although that was two years ago, I grew up a lot ince then. At 13 I was like her! I always wanted to be on the phone, constantly. But now, it's different. So she probably gnores you because of that. Maybe you should talk to her, she should understand why you feel the way you do. And the kissing, you have let that come on its own (I know you don't have to, but I do not know what she would want). Like you said, you haven't been goin out very long, maybe you should wait a little bit longer and if nothing happens, maybe you should make the first move. Hope this helps you! (Oh and by the way, don't worry! I get all worked up over small stuff too so its totally ok! To me, it's the small stuff that matters!) Good Luck!
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I find my self asking questions on this site about anything and everything that im feeling just to know that some body out there cares and wants to help. i havent had a girlfriend in 5 years'ish, and the only girls in my life that i have ever wanted to love all have boy friends now. feeling like iv been left behind... maybe im too closed off to people, i used to get bullied as a kid a bit but then i grew up and actually became quite normall with a bunch of a friends and the peopel that used to bully me i have forgivven (kids do stupid stuff and i try not to dwell on the bad things) they have all grown up too now and are quite decent people really when it comes down to it. (not all of them grew up though..) anyway's i guess because of that i spent most of my childhood thinking that i am unwanted among other people besides my family and the few friends i had back then. now im 18 (male) and i guess, beneath the forgiving happy allways smiling face that so many people at college allways like to see me as i guess i am just... lonley as hell, i dont open up to many people and if i do its on the internet because i can be annonymous if i want to be. i try to tell people how i feel but they allways talk to some one else about it, taking today for example i was passing notes to my friend (who's a girl) and the convo wasnt a very interesting one so i wrote somthing about me being a bit horny and why the hormones dont lay off a bit till i get a girlfriend as a joke. its sotmhing that i would share with her because i could trust her... she laughs and reads it out loud in a silent room. i went bright red with sheer shock embarrsesment and anger but as i allways do bottled it in and plugged me self into some heavy metal to burn my anger in somthing creativel'y brutal. i guess while i was getting that off my chest i forgot what my real question was... sorry its a long read, but detailed advice would be greatly appreciated to help me along with this problem i got, thanks.
by the way i dont think my friend got why i was upset and i wouldnt tell her, does she have a right to know? i keep telling my self i dont tell people whats wrong with me because its either not thier problem or i care for them too much to make them unhappy and involved with my problems
thanks (link)
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Hey you know do not beat yourself up. I feel that way all the time, believe me! All my friends they almost always appear like they are having a good time, (which in turn makes me feel left out)and there I am in a different mood not feeling what they feel so I do not tell them because I do not want to bring them down. I totally understand you completely. I have bottled up too many things in life (which I now regret even though I am not really that old at all!) so if you want to tell her you should. Maybe she will even understand where you are coming from, just like I do. Hope this helps and best of luck to you! =D
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hi everyone.
firstly i'm 16.
there is a guy i really like. he knows this - i've told him. he has said he likes me too.
anyway we had a fall out over something stupid - not serious at all, i can't believe we even argued about it.
but he won't talk to me now, at all. i have tried to call but he didn't answer. i text, no response. it's been 2 days now. i am not going to keep bothering him, but i like this guy more than he thinks.
i am getting the feeling i should just give up, because he doesn't want to talk to me?
help please!
loves x0x (link)
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Hi! Well, first of all, I totally know where your coming from. I am 15. You should probably just give him some time. If he wants to talk to you he will come around if not, things happen for a reason. I know this may sound lame, but it's true. The same happened to me and the guy I like but now were just friends. It took a while for him to come around, but he did. I don;t know this guy you like, but if he's not a jerk, he will talk to you. For now just relax. Hope this helps!
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im 40 (man) and live in chicago she 23 lives in michigan we have been talking for 1 yr and a half we have fallen in love to the point of she had said she allways wanted to be with me and planned a future allthough we talk sevreal times a day she has put off meeting and now says she is overwhelmed with our realtionship and wants to slow down is she with someone else? or is it her age ? why the big change she has written me many letters and cards saying how she wants us to be a (family)and she never wants to not be in my life and im the man she has been lookin for she does like older guys but im the oldest she has met and she says she has fallen for me we do exchange pics and cam and exchange gifts im toatally in love with her as well she is a smart profesional woman college educated and im a single father with a house what do i do to find the truth out she has a difficult time expressing her self unlike before were she allways told me she wanted us to allways be toghether she said shes becomeing messhed with me and shes geting scared i know she does love me ive tryed to break away and she crys and says she doesnt not want me in her life ? im so confused and in love ,,,help
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Hello! Well, I think she does love you just as much as you love her, but I think that she is just overwhelmed. I know it may not make the most sense, but I totally understand. Think of it this way, she really wants to be with you, (or else she would not cry for you)she probably just has a lot to think about. My father had the same problem, he was about your age and the woman was about 25 or 24. They liked each other vey much and wanted to be together. When she says she is scared, she is probably scared of commitment. I know for a fact she loves you but she is just thinking about her feelings about you. Try not to worry. Best of luck to you! Hope this helps =)
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i wanted to take some pictures for my fiance....like you half nude and stuff. i got a disposable camera and i= started to take some pictures well its hard to do a whole lot when im the only one holding the camera so i was wondering if someone could give me some ideas so i could finish off the roll of film.....like different positions or outfits or expresions......i just need some ideas
thanx (link)
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Hello, I am not to good with this subject, however, I tink something that would be hot would maybe be some where you would lie in bed just covered by sheets. I have seen celebrities do that so that might be okay. Sorry if this was not the best advice. Best of luck to you and your future husband!
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