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I really messed up!
I really messed up. My friend told me that my crush, let's call him J, said that i need to leave him alone and to never talk to him again. I did the wrong thing and told him that he was a jerk without confirming that he indeed said what my friend said J said. When he messaged me back, he sounded really mad and ready to press harrassment charges on me if i wrote back. I wrote back saying sorry and that i am misunderstood at home and mistreated at school and i dont think that he will believe me.
What can i do now?
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The first thing on your agenda would be to talk to J. You shouldn't try to fix anything with your "friend" if she was a true friend then she wouldn't have told you what she did. If I have to pick one valuable life lesson learned in my years of jr high it's who my true friends were. I learned alot of them are back stabbers and those kind of people need to realize that what she does is wrong, she will never realize that spreading rumors and lying aren't wrong if you just keep forgiving her. First things first you need to get your relationship with J squared away, think of a unique way to apologize if he doesn't listen face-to-face like write him a note, or email him. Anything would work and be great becuase you thought of it.
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You need to explain to J why you acted the way you did.
You cannot blame it on the way you're treated as that has nothing to do with anything.
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Your friend, while certainly pretty lolzworthy from afar, is a bitch.
You should have apologized for being momentarily thick headed in your reaction, you shouldn't have deflected blame to how your parents don't listen to you or you get made fun of at school or whatever.
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Hey, look. This stuff happens. I had a friend who was like that. Just forget about, if she was really a good friend, she would not tell you this kind of stuff. You should just go up to him and talk to him. Say that "someone" told you he never wanted to talk to you again. I do not see why he wouldn't understand. Just tell him how you feel. Hope this helps you =D GOOD LUCK!
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Listen. This is thr only advice im giving. Your friend is really caniving(no offense) to do that to you. Tell him the real story of why you accted the way you did.
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