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so my band director hes in like his 20's & hes married. We are really close like he's my second dad, I trust him alot. Since we have such a close relationship we walk to classes together or like we'll be in band & he'll pick me out of the crowd to do an errand. My favorite is when my lunch table goes up to get lunch he sits w/ me & keep me company b/c I pack. He also lets me come down for a lesson whenever I please, like all i would have to do is show up & he doesn't care because he's happy to help me but w/ everyone else they need to be assigned a lesson time. EVERYONE thinks him & I are doing it. It's ridiculous. I tell everybody that we are just chill &.. his wife is pregnant! It's crazy I can't be anywhere in the hallway w/ him alone or people would whistle. What's your take on our relationship, creepy.. it's to close.. we should be strictly teacher student? (link)
i wouldnt say neccasarly you have to be strictly student teacher but maybe you could cut down a little on the time you soend together during school hours for examples you could stop having him sit by you at lunch or walk you to classes.you two can still spend time together just not as much.



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R@v3n


19/f

Today is the 30th day of my cycle and I started getting a light brown discharge 3 days ago. I usually get my period every 25-33 days. I dont have sore breasts or anything like I usually do and I have only ever had this discharge after my period, NEVER before.

My boyfriend and I dont have sex but we fool around a bit so I doubt i could be pregnant unless he had semen on his fingers or something.

I was on the pill but I have had 3 periods since I stopped taking it and I havent had light brown discharge before any of them.

Should I be concerned? Because Im scared. (link)
this often happens when your under weight for your height.if you are this may be a sighn. sometimes if more weight is lost then your cycle will be cut off alltogether.this is very unhealthy if thats the case and i recomend you see a doctor.


hope all works out well
R@v3n


I am 16, I turn 17 this summer(August) and my boyfriend is 19, he turns 20 in october. We live in New York, is it legal for us to have sex?

Not saying i'm going to, just would like to know. (link)
no sorry its not legal ..if you get caught he could ow money or serve time in jail




sorry for the bad news
hope all works ou well,
R@v3n


im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do? (link)
hello im raven and im very pleased that i can help you with this question.if you are afraid your guy friend will tell you he dosent like you maybe you should ask his friends what they think.if you dont want to try getting a friend to do this for you.this dosent work or you get caught just remember honesty is the best policy.if he dosent like you ask to still be friends.




hope all works out,
R@v3n




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