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Question Posted Thursday June 4 2009, 10:08 am

okay so i go out with this boii i really like him alot . but me and ma ex love eachother still . He said that we can go back out on the last day of sckool and continue through the summer again . Idk what to do because i love ma ex but really like my new boyfriend he is super sweet and funny . I dont know what to do . Please help ...

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eelyab answered Thursday June 4 2009, 5:05 pm:
Hi!

Well you said you and your ex love each other and that is strong. If you really really loved each other you would not be broken up. Just think who you like more. Also if you really loved him you would not have posted this question, you would know the answer. I think that if it is going great with the new guy then choose him but do not use him until you and your ex get back together. Just think of the good and bad between both. Who do you think about more? Who do you smile most with? Just ask yourself these questions and good luck! If you need more help then hit me up on my inbox!

Sincerely, Baylee :)

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Darby answered Thursday June 4 2009, 2:55 pm:
You just have to decide which one you like more. Think of why you and your ex broke up in the first place. If it was for a specific problem, you can rest assured that the problem will still be there when you start dating again. If you and your ex just broke up because things ran their course, you'll just be chasing ghosts.

Think of the pros of your current boyfriend. Think of the pros of your ex boyfriend. Then, think of the cons of your current boyfriend, and the cons of your ex boyfriend.

Once you have these pros and cons listed, you'll have to see who has more pros and who has more cons. Then, you'll have to choose which pros/cons are the most serious/important to you.

Only you can make the decision of who you want to be with. The worst thing you could do in this situation is try to date both of them. They will undoubtedly both find out and you will then be alone.

Just pick which one makes you more happy and has the better pros and lesser cons.


Good luck,
Darby

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