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So what should I do now?
Hi!!
Well, things haven't been going to great. My ex broke up with me for my friend (ex friend) . He liked me, well I think he did, I'm not quite sure. I warned him about my friend Amy, she likes a few others guys plus him. I still care for my ex, he's great and I really like him. :/ Well, Amy just told me today that she doesn't like him at all, she loves this other guy, Amy said if the other guy (Matt) doesn't break up with his girl friend she will stay with my ex. I AM so mad at her for this... she says he doesn't talk...well YES he does!! He's shy, but he does talk , to me.Well I don't now whats going on with him, he hasn't been texting me back anymore because he thinks I lied to him about Amy.Well, I think that's it. I really care about this guy and I don't want Amy to hurt him.. what should I do to resolve all of this?? Also do you think he still has any feelings for me?? He told me he loved me before..so I'm confused. Please help and thanks in advance!
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I think you should call it off with Amy because a real friend would not go out with your boyfriend. She does not sound like a good girlfriend either. Do not be rude to her or start stuff but simply only talk to her when needed, slowly drift away. As for the ex, you need to talk to him, person, text, call, IM, whatever works for you. Tell him you do not want to be friends with Amy anymore because you know what she does. Tell him everything you know, after all you and Amy will not be friends anymore so it will not hurt that friendship. Make sure you tell her you are saying that as someone who still cares about him and does not want to see him get hurt. You have to make him believe you. Do whatever you can to convince him that she is no good without sounding jealous. It seems to me that if he told you he loved you he may still have feelings for you. It also sound like he does because he talked to you more because he was probably more comfortable around you. He is not talking to you because he is in denial. I know exactly what you mean because the same thing happened to me. Only my story was that I liked this guy A LOT and I still was not completely over him and this girl who I thought was my friend was suppose to "hook us up" well she ended up going out with him a couple days later. So I was not friends with her anymore but it did take me a very long time to get over the guy but we have been friends since. I do not believe that friends should date a friends ex unless they think they are in love enough to risk their friendship. However I do think it is okay if you both liked a guy and he choose her. Then you should not be mad at her because he choose her and obviously he did not like you. I hope I helped. If you have any more questions let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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From personal experience, I'd stop being friends with Amy. A real friend wouldn't go for your boyfriend, period. No need to be rude to her, just find a way to drift from her. And for Matt, I would try and talk to him in person, and tell him how you feel, and anything that you feel needs to be said. I wouldn't talk badly about Amy too him, because guys don't like that.
Kee your distance from both of them, but stay civil towards eachother.
I hope I helped! If you have any more questions, you can ask me personallyy (:
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