Just a normal 15 year old, nothing out of the ordinary. (:
Gender: Female
Location: California,
Age: 15
AIM: brookehalen
Member Since: June 1, 2009
Answers: 4
Last Update: June 8, 2009
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okay my crush danced with me at prom the other night, he was the one who approached me. I noticed that the whole night; him and his friends were staring at me. Even when i was dancing with other guys,i would look around to find him staring at me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine, he kept rubbing my back while slow dancing and rubbing my arms. I was getting the feeling that he liked me too since i was the only girl he danced with for the night. So it turns out that my friend spoke to him last night and he asked her if she did anything after prom then she said: No, i just went home and spoke to Tamara for a bit.(which is me) then he said: how did she say her night was? then she said: she had amaziiinggg night! i saw you guys dancing together, hot hot hot!! then he said: ahaha, i don't want to give the wrong intentions or anything, she's a cool person but yea...then later on in the convo he said that he just wanted to have fun. So i understand that he wanted to have fun...but i don't understand why he wanted to fold his hand into mine while dancing, rubbing my back, rubbing my arms and out of the whole room, he chose me to dance with...it's just weird...i mean we didn't just dance, it was more than that...i know that when i danced with the other guys, they weren't rubbing my back or folding their hand into mine. i don't know maybe i'm just naive.
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You don't sound naive. From what it appears, it sounds like he has a thing for you. I'd start talking to him casually, nothing big. Just simple conversations, you know? And don't go out of your way to talk to him. He might be afraid to say anything, because he thinks you don't like him.
Just keep things simple, but follow up on him.
I hope I helped!
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Hi!!
Well, things haven't been going to great. My ex broke up with me for my friend (ex friend) . He liked me, well I think he did, I'm not quite sure. I warned him about my friend Amy, she likes a few others guys plus him. I still care for my ex, he's great and I really like him. :/ Well, Amy just told me today that she doesn't like him at all, she loves this other guy, Amy said if the other guy (Matt) doesn't break up with his girl friend she will stay with my ex. I AM so mad at her for this... she says he doesn't talk...well YES he does!! He's shy, but he does talk , to me.Well I don't now whats going on with him, he hasn't been texting me back anymore because he thinks I lied to him about Amy.Well, I think that's it. I really care about this guy and I don't want Amy to hurt him.. what should I do to resolve all of this?? Also do you think he still has any feelings for me?? He told me he loved me before..so I'm confused. Please help and thanks in advance! (link)
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From personal experience, I'd stop being friends with Amy. A real friend wouldn't go for your boyfriend, period. No need to be rude to her, just find a way to drift from her. And for Matt, I would try and talk to him in person, and tell him how you feel, and anything that you feel needs to be said. I wouldn't talk badly about Amy too him, because guys don't like that.
Kee your distance from both of them, but stay civil towards eachother.
I hope I helped! If you have any more questions, you can ask me personallyy (:
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i pierced my own belly button a few days ago with a really thick, steralized needle, and i took it out and immediately put a normal gaged ring in.. the ring was my friends from when she went to get her belly button pierced, and i steralized it..
please dont yell at me, i already know its bad to pierce your own belly button..
ive been putting peroxide on it, and triple anti bacterial ointment on it. mostly peroxide though, and ive been cleaning it a lot. the first two days it was like oozing yellow/ whitish stuff, and it dried up as crust.. but i kept cleaning it and it went away...
now it just hurts. It is SOOOOOOO SOAR. like litterally, i cant even sit up straight in my seat at school, i know its supposed to be soar for a few weeks, but i feel like mine is unbelieveably painfuler than all my friends..
also, it looks better but it looks like the skin around the hole is peeling a little bit.. is that normal?
i want to know if i am cleaning it out right, and is there anything i can do to ease some of this pain?? like, anything i can put on it?? i just basically dont know how to handle it.. so if someone could help me learn how to take care of it and what to do and not to do with it, thatd be great :) thanks...
oh also, my mom doesnt know, and she was gonna take me in december to get it done for my birthday.. but i REEEALLY wanted it for the summer.. so i was wondering.. if i take it out after summer in like september, will it close up for me to get it repierced by december?? tthanksss =) (link)
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Althought I do not have mine peirced, it sounds like it should be fine, besides the soreness. Personally, I'd tak it out before summer, and let it heal. Its better to get it done professionally, and over winter so it can heal correctly, so by summer you don't have to worry about pain and crusting.
If you end up keeping it, and your mom sees it, she might not take you to get it done professionally. Do you really want to risk it?
I don't have the link, but if you look up 'belly button peircing' on google, there's a site that gives you stories from girls who've pierced their belly buttons themselves, and the infections they've gotton. If you start to get stomach pain and naseua, you may have a very dangerous infection.
For your health, I'd take it out and wait for your mom to take you.
I hope I helped!
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Ok, here goes... I guess I should tell you a bit about myself, at least the basics: 17, female, and a virgin. Great, right? Now, onto the question.
Last year there was a guy in a couple of my classes that we're going to call "Aaron." He was a year older than me but I was in his classes because I am on a more advanced track. Well, Aaron sat in my little group during math class along with his other friend, "John." I had known John from before so we all got along really well. It wasn't soon before I started to really like Aaron. Besides celebrities, he was the only guy I had ever felt sexually attracted to. It was apparent he liked me too. As the months progressed, we started being more open with each other and joking about sex. One day when we were sitting in Spanish (our table was WAY in the back), we got on the topic of boobs somehow. I made a comment like "I don't get why guys like boobs, they're just big bags of fat!" to which he retorted, "Well, if you were a guy and saw your chest, you'd be attracted to them too." With that, he cupped my boob. I was kinda shocked! I mean, we were in the middle of the classroom! Part of me thought it was strange and the other part was in heaven! It felt really good and I completely trusted him. This continued on and we made out a few times. One day, we were eating lunch and he told me to meet him up at his locker in ten minutes. We each got locker passes and I follwed him up shortly after he left. I was really happy. His locker was located by a guy's bathroom. He told me to follow him inside. I was REALLY scared to go in. The big taboo, you know? But I was so enamored that I followed him in. He asked if I would give him a blowjob. He did not pressure me and asked very sweetly, making sure I was ok. Let me tell you, I've never wanted to do anything more in my life. I was so ready for it, but in a bathroom? No. It felt so wrong. It was then that our male science teacher walked in. We were shouted at but in the end we didn't get into too much trouble. After that Aaron became a recluse. I don't know if it was because he was embarrassed, angry, or scared, but he stopped talking to me. It really hurt me and I gave up the hopes of ever being with him.
Skip to the end of this year:
We eventually made up, but he still didn't really talk to me. It wasn't until a week ago I actually spoke to him for more than two minutes. We were confined to the auditorium, setting up amps for an assembly later that day. We talked, but we didn't mention the year before or anything sexual.
Later that day, Aaron sent me a message on facebook asking if I would give him a blowjob.
I really didn't know what to say. This was really unexpected and I wasn't prepared at all. I decided in my mind that I still really wanted to do it. I liked him a lot, and this was basically for my pleasure as much as his. He wants me to do it behind our stage, in a loft that holds all the costumes after school. It's hard to find the time, but I really want to!
So here are my questions:
1) Am I really wrong to do this?
2) Should I lie to my parents so I can do this?
3) At school?!
4) How can we find the time?
Thanks for everything and I'm sorry this thing is so LONG! I'm hyped on Caribou right now and my fingers just keep going!
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I've been in the same boat as you, and even though you might have that urge to give him one, you're most likely going to regret it. He stopped talking to you, why? And all of a sudden wants one because..? He might just be using you, you know?
I'd find out about those questions before you give him anything.
I hope I helped, and strongly reccomend that you go against your want too.
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