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I don't mean to sound naive but could he be lying?
okay my crush danced with me at prom the other night, he was the one who approached me. I noticed that the whole night; him and his friends were staring at me. Even when i was dancing with other guys,i would look around to find him staring at me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine, he kept rubbing my back while slow dancing and rubbing my arms. I was getting the feeling that he liked me too since i was the only girl he danced with for the night. So it turns out that my friend spoke to him last night and he asked her if she did anything after prom then she said: No, i just went home and spoke to Tamara for a bit.(which is me) then he said: how did she say her night was? then she said: she had amaziiinggg night! i saw you guys dancing together, hot hot hot!! then he said: ahaha, i don't want to give the wrong intentions or anything, she's a cool person but yea...then later on in the convo he said that he just wanted to have fun. So i understand that he wanted to have fun...but i don't understand why he wanted to fold his hand into mine while dancing, rubbing my back, rubbing my arms and out of the whole room, he chose me to dance with...it's just weird...i mean we didn't just dance, it was more than that...i know that when i danced with the other guys, they weren't rubbing my back or folding their hand into mine. i don't know maybe i'm just naive.
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He gave you the wrong idea at prom, and that sucks. = But maybe he didn't do it intentionally. Perhaps he was just really into the dancing, and got caught up in the night. He made it clear that he only wanted to have fun, and that he doens't want to give you the wrong idea. Don't pursue it if he doesn't want you too.
If he has fun with you, that's a good start. But go out and have fun with other people too.
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Hey,okay I dont think your not naive at all
that was defenately done intentionally well In my opinion he wouldnt just do that like you said none of the others did.
guys are like that though they flirt with us then act disinterested or act as if they werent trust me ive a guy who does that to me 24/7 and il never understand it.
nearly the exact same thing happend with me too at a dance.
its possible hes afraid of commiting to something,he likes you but doesnt want to get involved in a relationship maybe.
Or else he is could be confused about his feelings.
guys are hard to read,and they constantly give us mixed signals probably without even realising!
theres no point in second guessing as to whether he likes you or not,
you should ask him or get someone to ask him if hes genuinely into you,if he says no say please stop sending me signals then maybe im reading them wrong but it sure did look like you were into me the other night at the dance..then youl give him the oppurtunity to tell you if he likes your or not,if he does and isnt a coward he will come out and say it.
Good luck =] hope I helped in anyway
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Jess
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You don't sound naive. From what it appears, it sounds like he has a thing for you. I'd start talking to him casually, nothing big. Just simple conversations, you know? And don't go out of your way to talk to him. He might be afraid to say anything, because he thinks you don't like him.
Just keep things simple, but follow up on him.
I hope I helped!
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