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Ways to get her to fall for me What are some ways I can get the girl I like to fall for me?
I'm 13(m)
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Talk to her a lot, smile and laugh at her jokes. Give her hugs every day when you first see her, and every time you say goodbye. When she is sad ask her what is wrong and acctually listen and respond to what she has to say. A girl loves a guy who acctually listens to her. Personally I am a sucker for a great hugger. Go get em and have fun :)
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Be yourself but flirt with her. Don't treat her like one of the guys. If you really like her you should try and stand out to impress her but dont show off. The best advice i can give you is for a teenager at thirteen most girls are going through weird stages. They are basically trying to figure out who they want to be. So tell her you like her in front of all of her friends talk to your friends about it. you will probly get the best advice from her best friend. 'just go up to her bff and tell her that you like (?) and you want to know if she likes you to but tell her you dont want her to know you even talked to her...
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It really varies from girl to girl. Everybody has different preferences and turn ons and turn offs.
Some girls like athletes, some girls like boys in drama. Some girls like funny, outgoing and social guys, some like quiet shy bookworm guys.
Personally? I'd go for the theater guy over the basketball player, and the bookworm over the socialite. But that's just me ;]
Personality wise, here are my top 5:
1. A good sense of humor.
- A good sense of humor is always beneficial. And not a stupid "that's what she said!" sense of humor, somebody who can genuinely make an original joke. Making a girl laugh is one of the best things you can do in an effort to "win her heart".
2. Intelligence.
-Being smart is good, too. Us girls don't want to talk to somebody who can't count higher than 10, or who doesn't understand what's happening in the world. You don't have to be a total know it all, just smart enough to hold a decent conversation.
3. Nice guys.
- Nice guys DON'T finish last. If you compliment a girl, chances are she won't forget it any time soon. However, if you're mean to a girl, she'll remember for A LOT longer.
4. A good appearance.
- I'm not going to lie and don't think I'm shallow, but looks are all you have to go on for the first few minutes of knowing somebody. So if you're shirts half untucked, your shoes are untied, and your hair is unbrushed and a mess, chances are girls won't be into it.
5. Showing interest/having similar interests.
- I cannot tell you how attractive it is when I'm talking to a guy and he asks my favorite band, and the replies with, "I love The Rocket Summer, too!" Ask questions, and tell her when you like something she likes. If you have a lot in common, your relationship will go a lot farther than if you have nothing in common.
Those, however, are just the things I like but like I said, it's different for different girls. But a good sense of humor and giving a girl compliments are DEFINETE ins.
-Laura (17-f) ]
hey there :)
Okay, I am sorry but you can not MAKE someone fall for you no matter what you do. Just be friends with her and eventually ask her out and see how it goes. Message me for further help :)
Sincerely, Baylee ]
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