Hi,
I am 13 and i am a great advice giver. I have everything from mixed emotions to thinkinking im in love. I am with a guy now and i really think he is the one. I get sick and tired of people wondering things and thinking other people dont think the sam things. Well there wrong! What you want to know about there is someone else wondering the same things too. I have always struggled with my weight so i know what you bigger girls are thinking and feeling. Don't give up life is full of strange surprises. You can ask me any question if it is about sex to your weight i eill try and do the best i can. If i can't help you im probly wondering the same things you are. Dont be shy just ask me and i will be honest with i don't hold back
L♥VE alw@y$
Glustick :)
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13/m
OK so last Thursday i went to the movies with my girlfriend and another one of her friends and i asked her if she wanted to do something again this weekend but im not sure if she wants to go to the movies again so what are some things we could do. we live in a small city but not anything with huge skyscrapers and like 10 giant shopping centers just one small one which sucks cause theres hardly anything to do.
so im looking for just any help at all thanks alot
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Okay i am a 13/f.
Well it is nice to get to know the guys family. So bring her back to your house. Nothing is wrong with hanging around your house. But to warn you the first time i every went over to my bf's house i was so nervous. i just sat there. But try and make her feel at home.
Well i hope i helpped..
♥GlUsTiCk
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Hi, I'm 17/f and there's this guy that I've been talking to on and off for about 4 years now, and during this time we've both gone out with other people but we always go back to eachother for some strange reason, though we've never actually gone out. I recently lost my virginity to him and now we talk almost everyday, and we do other stuff occasionally, like go out to eat, and we always talk, never about sex or anything, but he's always asking me to come over and now almost everytime we see eachother we have sex. I'm pretty sure he doesn't talk to other girls, and I don't talk to other guys either but I can't tell whether he's just using me for sex or if he really does like me. I really like him and I always have, and we've talked about it before and he claims he does really like me, especially since we've known eachother for such a long time, but idk. When I told him that if we're gonna keep having sex that we should just be together, he said he wanted to be with me too but he didn't wanna rush anything and he said we should just play it by ear... It's been a little over a month and nothing has changed. Should I continue talking to him or what should I do? (link)
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i know what you mean. my ex and i new each other for 10 yrs and i thought i could trust him. Just remeber guys are pigs and to be honest i dont even think that they know what they want in a committed relationship. I would say just stay friends because if yall get to close then break up it can ruin not only a relationship but more importantly a friendship..
I Hope I Helped! :)
/glustick
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Well firstly I just wanted to ask where r some good places to masterbate? and what are some good things around the house I can use during masterbation? As well as is it normal that when I'm masterbating I don't really "scream" when it feels good but I just kinda moan but not so loud... oh, and I'm 15/f
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your bedroom is probly #1...
or even in the bathroom in the shower..
a back massager underneath you or your fingure. My suggestion is don't uses food because it can get stuck up inside you or mush.
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Okay so I'm 13/F (almost 14 though) and I recently met a boy (15/M we'll call him J) and he seemed pretty nice, so I gave him my number and we've been talking for awhile now but haven't hung out a lot. I asked him once about his past relationships and he told me that there has only been one girl and that they only made out. And I was kind of surprised because I knew one of his friends was a pretty bad kid but I thought maybe J is diferent. Well I talked to that friend (close friends) and he told me that J went all the way... Im not really okay with that. I've never even been kissed... I asked J if that was true (but I didnt say who told me) and J denied it... Well i dont know who to believe... I dont know either of them very well but I really want it to work with J. What should I do? (link)
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Hi,
I'm 13 as well and i have been in the same position you are in. i would let the past be the past. What you don't know won't nessicerilly kill you. My advice is don't worrie about it, but don't let him in your pants until yall have dated for a really long while. Go and have him checked for STD's. Don't get in to deep because if his friends are bad news then maybe he is just playing it off as a fake.. I was in love with a 16 year old he forced me to do alot of stuff but we never had sex. So older guys probly aren't your best bet..
Hope i helpd please rate me
Glustick
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i honestly dont know what to do. he's the first guy i've let myself fully trust since my ex. and i've like him for a while. i wasnt sure if he was into me or not, until a couple days ago when he kissed me. but today we started talking bout not starting anything, because it would cause too many problems when he moves 1000miles away in less than a month. i feel like my heart is breaking again. i dont want him to go. but he has to, to get things right for him, & for him to be happy. i want him to be happy. i just feel so broken knowing he's not gona be there. help! :( (link)
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I know exactly how you are feeling. I sucks. Everything happens for a reason and i know this my seem a litlle childish but there is always more fish in the sea. Just because he will be 1000miles awy doesn't mean he won't remeber you. Ask him for his number so you two can still stay in touch. Life has many bumps in the road so dont let this one make you crash now. Your heart will be fine just put some ducktape around it so you won't loose any of the peices...
If you really love him you will let him go. If you don't let him go it shows that you dont know how to strenghthen your heart. What every happens i wish you the best of luck well Let me now how you think this helpped you..
love always,
Glustick
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Okay I'm 5 ft, 14 years old, and I weight 114 pounds, on a website I wanted to see how much body fat I had and it was 36%, and I'm going to be perfectly honest, my stomach is sorta chubby, but nothing else is, on the website it said at 15% body fat you could start seeing four packs and things like that, well I need help on losing body fat and fast, I'm tired of my stomach I can't stand it, I need to know foods I should eat[things I could get at a grocery store], and what exercises I need to do, I'm willing to do anything right now, please help. (link)
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hey,
I am 13 and i was way overweight. i started out at 210 lbs. but now i am down to 150. What i done is i cut out all junk food. NO pop, bread, noodles, candy basically anything white. NOTHING fried. If you really want to loose weight like i did you will stick with it. But remember to work out or you will be flabby. get weights and lift them like normal. run and jump rope. your noot overweight. just to get rid of your tummy do sit ups everytime there is a comercial comes on it really works
[HOPE THIS HELPED]
♥ GLUstick
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what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on? we havent done really anything yet. except kiss and stuff. and i really want to get further. and i know he does too. but we dont really talk about it. i want one of these days to hangout with him and turn him on. i want him to get hard cause i know itl help alot with the doing and talking about it. i know he likes his hair being pulled. but what are some other ways? thankyou so much (link)
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i know exactlly how you feel. but i just recently found out i got my bf hard. :)... he said that when i rub his waist and tease him when we kiss it turns him in because it makes him want more well hope i could help..
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15 female
okay, so my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month now, but we been talking for a while, even during my last relationship, so we have a pretty strong connection. anyways, just today he found out his x is pregnany with his baby, shes 2 months. she called his mom and told her, and she said she never told him cause she was scared. now i really dont know what to do, im really upset cause i like him alot and now this whole situation jus got in the middle of our relationship, which was going really goood. he said he dosnt wanna brake up with me and that we shouldnt let our feelings dies because of this but he says he feels bad putting me thro this and doesnt want me to go thro it all cause im so young, but i really wanna stay with him cause i like him ALOT. idk what to do ): i been crying like non stop since he told me that... ughhhhhhhhhh.
btw, hes 18 and shes 16 or 17 i think.
what should i do???? hes gonna come see me tomarow, cause we dont get to see eachother much since he lives kinda far from me and cause my parents don want us together. what should i tell him or do?!! oodfcnvjksnv ):
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I would personaly break up with him..
If he loves you he will try and come back to you. Just explain to him his ex-gf needs him more than you do. Tell him that if it was you, you would want the baby to have its real dad around. tell him after the birth of the baby maybe you could pitch in and support her. You to can still be togather and be supportive. i would break up with him just for the moment. Give them both the chance to talk and work things out so you dont get stuck in the middle. Dont kick him off the road. Talk to him and tell him you like him alot and if you didn't care for him you wouldn't give him the chance to go and work everything out and then come back to you.
GOOD LUCK!
♥~GLUSTICK
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I get awful acne on my back chest and my arms and i don't know what to use to get rid of it. I get random breakouts on my face but its just a few zits so its not really a big deal. I'm ver self conscious about my acne and i've tried body washes but none of them seem to work. I hate having to hide because i have this problem. So what should i use or what should i do? (link)
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I have a friend at my school and she got really bad break outs because of sweatting and wearing make-up. She had the same problems you did. she asked me what she could do and i asked my mom. The best thing to probly do is go to your doctor. You might also try not wearing make-up or even shower twice a day. Well i hope i helped
♥glustick :)
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okay, i wanna loose up to 10 pds before summer starts. it starts in about alomst a month or so and i dont know how to keep a daily diet and how to stop me from eating bad and unhealthy foods. im 16 and 5'4 and weigh 151. any suggestions pleaseee?
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stay away from pop, candy, bread, potatoes, and noodles. Anything white would be your best bet i have lost 50lbs and im only 13. Whenever you see food that is fatting just tell yourself i dont need that. Put goals up for yourself. If this doesn't work talk to your doctor they have all diffrent types of diet charts you can go by but you have to stick with it..
Well i WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!
p.s. let me know how everything works out for you :)
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Me and my boyfriend were trying for a baby. We split up and i am now going out with someone who i love very much. Problem is i think i could be pregnant with my ex's baby. I know this because i haven't slept with my current boyfriend. If i am pregnant i dont think i would want to keep the baby because i dont feel i am ready to have a child at the moment. I am still rather young. But i dont really agree to termination? So what do i do if i am pregnant? (link)
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I would keep the baby. You might still be young but anything is possible. If things don't work out with you raising the baby you can always give it up for adoption. You will have someone that is always there when you need it and it would be just like a mirical occured in your life if you decide to keep it.
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My hair is so oily that it's grossing me out. I have to wash it everyday no matter what. Any suggestions on how to minimize oil in the scalp so I don't have to be frantic over washing it all of the time? My hair is thin and oily so it's very noticeable! (link)
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If you use conditionair on your hair don't. Maybe washing your hair 2 times when your in the shower would help thats what i done. just soap it up and rinse and repet once more but whenevr you get out of the shower dont vlow dry it either let it air dry well see if this doesnt work and let me know. GOOD LUCK!!
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How do doctors tell if you're overweight? Is there a guide to go by or something? (link)
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my doctor depends over weight by your age. When your a certain age your sopossed to be around a certain weight. for instance when i was 13 i weighed 210lbs. I was overweight.i just ask my doctor and i started a diet chart and meds. just ask your doctor and they really can't lie to you if you ask them and tell them it is bothering you and you would like to know.
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What are some ways I can get the girl I like to fall for me?
I'm 13(m)
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Be yourself but flirt with her. Don't treat her like one of the guys. If you really like her you should try and stand out to impress her but dont show off. The best advice i can give you is for a teenager at thirteen most girls are going through weird stages. They are basically trying to figure out who they want to be. So tell her you like her in front of all of her friends talk to your friends about it. you will probly get the best advice from her best friend. 'just go up to her bff and tell her that you like (?) and you want to know if she likes you to but tell her you dont want her to know you even talked to her...
Well wish you the best please email me back to tell me your results...
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I am an 18 year boy from the Faroe Island,and I cant give my girlfriend an orgasem she is 16.
so here is the question
1.my penis is bended down and the skin is not tight around it, could that be the problem??
2.can I do anything to get my penis straight upp??
3. could the problem be with my girlfriend??
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yes, there is a problem. It is called erectile dysfunction. This refers to a male's inability to achive a full erection or to maintain one. some of the cause are from discomfort in the relationship, factors could be gilt, fear, depression, or dissipointment from family or friends. My advie would be to go see a doctor and tell him what your problems are incase its more server.
well wish you the best result..
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My BMI is 23.5, which is average, but I look so fat!
What is the most efficient way to lose weight, without starving?
I can't work out now but in a month, when school ends I can.
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You should probly go to a docotor and ask him for a simple diet chart. Set a goal weight for yourself but talk to the doctor about it first so h you won't look un normal. I remeber i was 13 and i weighed 210 lbs. i talked to my doctor and they gave a really good diet chart and i followed it. Then in 5 months i was down to 160. but remeber some people loose weight faster than others..
Well i wish you the best of luck and trust me it isn't easy but it is worth the results in the end.
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