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My boyfriends ex is pregnant
15 female
okay, so my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month now, but we been talking for a while, even during my last relationship, so we have a pretty strong connection. anyways, just today he found out his x is pregnany with his baby, shes 2 months. she called his mom and told her, and she said she never told him cause she was scared. now i really dont know what to do, im really upset cause i like him alot and now this whole situation jus got in the middle of our relationship, which was going really goood. he said he dosnt wanna brake up with me and that we shouldnt let our feelings dies because of this but he says he feels bad putting me thro this and doesnt want me to go thro it all cause im so young, but i really wanna stay with him cause i like him ALOT. idk what to do ): i been crying like non stop since he told me that... ughhhhhhhhhh.
btw, hes 18 and shes 16 or 17 i think.
what should i do???? hes gonna come see me tomarow, cause we dont get to see eachother much since he lives kinda far from me and cause my parents don want us together. what should i tell him or do?!! oodfcnvjksnv ):
HELP!!!!
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I agree with Razhie, you should break up with him.
Ultimately, the pain you'll feel when breaking off the relationship now compared to the pain you'll feel when you go through all of this and THEN breaking it off, it is significantly less.
So, if you break it off now, you will feel pain, no doubt, but, it will pass. However, the longer you wait, the more pain you'll accumulate, and the more painful it will be to end the relationship a few months from now.
Do yourself a favor. End the relationship. Nothing says you can't still be friends.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I would personaly break up with him..
If he loves you he will try and come back to you. Just explain to him his ex-gf needs him more than you do. Tell him that if it was you, you would want the baby to have its real dad around. tell him after the birth of the baby maybe you could pitch in and support her. You to can still be togather and be supportive. i would break up with him just for the moment. Give them both the chance to talk and work things out so you dont get stuck in the middle. Dont kick him off the road. Talk to him and tell him you like him alot and if you didn't care for him you wouldn't give him the chance to go and work everything out and then come back to you.
GOOD LUCK!
♥~GLUSTICK
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Break up with him.
Seriously. I know it's hard and you don't want too, but you'd be crazy to stay with this guy. He has a huge, serious, adult problem to deal with it, and it has nothing at all to do with you. You can't be his partner in this. It's simply impossible.
It is probably going to kill your feelings for him eventually and it is going to get in the middle of your relationship for the rest of the time you are togeather, and that little baby, has EVERY right to do so. It deserves the centre of attention. It's more important then you, or him.
He's probably not ready for this, and you are definitely not. The thing is: You have a choice. You can back out, and you should.
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