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breaking heart. :(
i honestly dont know what to do. he's the first guy i've let myself fully trust since my ex. and i've like him for a while. i wasnt sure if he was into me or not, until a couple days ago when he kissed me. but today we started talking bout not starting anything, because it would cause too many problems when he moves 1000miles away in less than a month. i feel like my heart is breaking again. i dont want him to go. but he has to, to get things right for him, & for him to be happy. i want him to be happy. i just feel so broken knowing he's not gona be there. help! :(
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I'm sorry =/
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I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a gut is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
Honestly, it's going to take time, and it's going to be hard, but once you get over him you will feel SO much better. I promise you that this guy is NOT worth wasting all of your time on, and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Go out and find a new guy that treats you right and is WORTH your time. Forget about this guy ASAP. You're young and have plenty of time for guys. And, as one of my favorite books puts it: The first boy is always the hardest.
If you need any more help, let me know.
-Laura (17-f)
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that must be really upseting.
But you need to remember that if you don't let him go you will be upseting yourself even more and thats not going to help anyone.
Try and keep occupied.
and if you still miss him then get his Moblie number or MSN.
I hope i helped you.
Yours truly,
Abbie, xxx
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I know exactly how you are feeling. I sucks. Everything happens for a reason and i know this my seem a litlle childish but there is always more fish in the sea. Just because he will be 1000miles awy doesn't mean he won't remeber you. Ask him for his number so you two can still stay in touch. Life has many bumps in the road so dont let this one make you crash now. Your heart will be fine just put some ducktape around it so you won't loose any of the peices...
If you really love him you will let him go. If you don't let him go it shows that you dont know how to strenghthen your heart. What every happens i wish you the best of luck well Let me now how you think this helpped you..
love always,
Glustick
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