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i dont want it anymore


Question Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 6:08 pm

Me and my boyfriend were trying for a baby. We split up and i am now going out with someone who i love very much. Problem is i think i could be pregnant with my ex's baby. I know this because i haven't slept with my current boyfriend. If i am pregnant i dont think i would want to keep the baby because i dont feel i am ready to have a child at the moment. I am still rather young. But i dont really agree to termination? So what do i do if i am pregnant?

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glustick answered Thursday June 4 2009, 4:20 pm:
I would keep the baby. You might still be young but anything is possible. If things don't work out with you raising the baby you can always give it up for adoption. You will have someone that is always there when you need it and it would be just like a mirical occured in your life if you decide to keep it.

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christina answered Thursday June 4 2009, 2:36 am:
I would carry the baby to term & then give it up for adoption. There are people who will love your baby when you cannot. You can look here:

www.adoption.com

Most will pay the hospital fees and anything else if you're looking for any other types of compensation. You can also have an open adoption which is where the family you give the baby to keeps you updated with pictures and/or visits. :)

It's a very good solution, and most people don't look into it enough. I hope things work out. :)

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GwinnCheer2006 answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 9:10 pm:
If you dont agree to abortion you could always look at other options such as adoption. Give your baby to a loving family who cant have children. There are always alot of options. I would talk to your current boyfriend about it and tell him the situation that you may be pregnant. Dont keep anything from him if you really love him. (If you havent told him yet) Good Luck and i hope you choose the right decison for you!

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