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dating someone but like someone else


Question Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 2:15 pm

i am going out with this guy who im not exactley sure im into anymore but i do like this other guy who idk wether he like sme or not should i break up with guy im dating or no? 14 female

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Darby answered Tuesday June 2 2009, 6:19 pm:
It sounds like you should definitely break up with the guy you're dating. It's not fair to him to stay in the relationship if you're no longer into it. Make sure that you're not into him anymore before you break up with him though. If you're not 100% sure, you might end up regretting it.

Imagine what it would be like if he weren't in your life. If you couldn't call him when you needed support or if you didn't hang out with him anymore. Think about what life was like before you started dating him, and how things have changed in the time you have dated him.

If you're positive that you're ready to break up with him, it's best to just come out and say. Tell him that he's a great guy, but you're just not feeling the relationship anymore. You can't be any more honest than that. He's going to be upset at first, but once he gets over it, he'll appreciate how honest you were with him.

As for the other guy, wait a little while. You don't want to break up with your current boyfriend and be dating another guy the same day. Give yourself some time to really get to know the new guy before you mention that you're into him. If you get to know him well and see that you really are interested in pursuing a relationship, you can let him know how you're feeling and see how he feels about you.

Good luck!

Darby(:

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susansexton answered Tuesday June 2 2009, 5:40 pm:
Well first of all, If you don't like the person you're dating, you should not be dating him for the hell of it anyways. It leads to heatbreaks, and just bad things, so rather that other guys likes you or not, you should end it with your current guy.
And about that other dude, find out if he likes you, if so, gofor it.


good luck!

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