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Dream Predicament
I had dated this boy named Evan for about 1 year and something. Our relationship was great, no complaints here. We were in love. The reason we broke up was because he was moving away to college and we didn't want each other to get in the way of our studies and our college life. Well after 6 months of crying and heartache for me I finally got over him and moved on. So I met this other guy named Ray. Ray is such a sweetheart and a great guy. We've been dating for three months and I'm really happy with him. In the beginning of my relationship with Ray, Evan told me how he misses me and he's still in love with me. Obviously I was annoyed because he had his chance for about 6 months after our breakup. But I turned him down. So now three months later, I keep have dreams of being with Evan, even though I'm perfectly happy with Ray. Evan's a great guy I admit but I've moved on. Or so I think. But when I keep having these dreams it makes me think otherwise. Have I really moved on?
I'm not one to base my emotions on dreams but, they are really bothering me and I just had the third one last night. Any help on what this all means?
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Dreams come from your self-concious, and things you've seen on TV, real life, things you may have been reading, and such like that. It's probably that you've moved on, but your pass is just coming along as life goes. It's probably nothing, if you are really convinced that you're happy with Ray. Maybe it's just a sign of saying that Evan has been thinking about you. who knows?
I know this wasn't very helpful. But i'm trying ha, I've had a problem similar.
Try spending more time with Ray, and less time thinking about Evan, it should helpp.
good luck:)
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Of course Evan is going to be on your mind, even if you aren't thinking of it willingly. He was a big part of your life at one time, and you loved him. It's nothing to be ashamed of, and it does not mean you are still in love with him. Maybe it just means that you still care for him subconsiously. And that's fine, and it's understandable.
Evan left you. He left you broken-hearted so he could go "live up his college life." Which FYI, that means he wanted to party with other girls with no strings attached. When he found out you had moved on, it upset him. That's how guys are. Now if you feel you still love him, maybe you should take a step back and re-evaluate your relationships with both of these boys.
Good luck with your problem.
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