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simple? (hangon with me guys, its long)
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Like I stated, this is going to be terribly long.
I was introduced to a guy, who we're going to call "Derek" on Valentines Day, this year. Later that night he added me on Myspace. From there, we basically started 'talking'. It started off simple, cute and flirty, then after a month or so it got more serious. He came over to my house one day, and we spent literally six hours together. And of course, within those six hours we hooked up.
Everything was going fine, until about a month later when I screwed everything up, according to him. We were at a park, and it was brisk and windy. I was wearing shorts and a tank top. I asked him if he wanted to go back to my house (I lived 2 minutes from the park) and let me change into jeans, but he said no. And after about 15 minutese of arguing, I walked away from him to go home. We pretty much stopped talking after this. He got back with his ex, and I started dating this guy named Caden after about three weeks of not talking to eachother. When Caden and I broke up a week later, I got a phone call from a number I didn't know. It was derek. So basically he drove down to my house, picked me up and we hooked up. That was on saturday. The following monday he got back with his ex, again. I asked him why, and he just looked at me and shrugged. So we've begun "talking" again, even though he has a girlfriend. He claims he wants me, and that I'm better, and that I'm his dream girl. He always says how he's going to do stuff to me, and how we're going to make it..
But he won't tell me why he's with her. Once he told me that she gives him money, but that was never brought up again. And its not sex, so I'm a little frusturated.
Recently, I told him to get his things straight, and until then not to talk to me, or call.
He's called, and left messages, but I don't read them or listen, I just deleted them.
A few days ago I finally answered the phone when he called, and we talked for a little. I was just messing around, naming random facts about my life, and then he said "I don't care about your life" so I got mad & hung up, then called him back and told him I was officially done with him. He said "okay. Wow" and hung up. Then he deleted me off myspace. But at school he stares at me when I walk by, and always looks at me. (I ignore him)
I don't really know what to do, because I do really like him, and I'm just not sure what to do.
Sorry it was so long.
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Here's my advice I hope it helps
It's obvious if he only hooks up with you and tells you what he wants to do with you.
He was only keeping you around for one reason.
Find a sweet guy you like.
Screw that guy
Who knows what might happen.
It's a delicate situation.
Confront this "Derek" one last time and tell him you are serious and see what happens, if he gets sad then ask why he is and talk to him.
If he even brings up any sexual just get up and leave because it's obvious that's all he wants.
Thanks
Best of luck :)
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You're being used to "hook up" with. I think you would be better off to just forget Derek. He is a jerk. Really, he is.
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You deserve a lot better than him. He doesn't sound like he's even mature enough for a serious relationship. Plus, if you two did start dating again, he could start talking to other girls like he talked to you when he was dating the other girl. As hard as it may be, it's probably best to just not have anything to do with him.
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