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First date
Hi, 17/m.
Ive Known this girl for about 7months, and we were just friends. The other day, i told her i like her, and we're officially an item (although she doesnt want everyone to know yet). Thursday is the day of our first proper proper date. Ive seen her around school..and we just talk for a while, and i talk to her on the phone everyday.
We're going to watch a movie, and We allready know each other, so we dont really feel uncomfortable around each other, but heres a few questions i have. What should by body language be? my arm around her? hold her hand? too early for a kiss? i ask this because...ive not dated a friend before....and its normally got the wierd first date because you dont know each other much, but this isnt the case. Any Help? Thanks.
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Holding her hand and putting your arm around her shoulders during the movie is definitely appropriate. Since you guys have been just friends for a while, you want to prove that you are interested in her as more than friends. When you first pick her up, let her know how beautiful she looks. Compliment her hair, makeup, or outfit. Not all three. Just pick one that you can tell she spent time on.
As far as kissing her, I wouldn't go for it unless the timing feels right. You don't want her to think that you're wanting to move too quickly. But if you're standing at her door after the date and the moment feels right, lean in for a kiss. If you get nervous or the timing just isn't right, let it go. You'll have plenty of other opportunities to kiss her. Girls are all different. Some are okay with kissing on the first date and some aren't. To stay on the safe side, just don't do it unless you think she wants to.
Have fun,
Darby(:
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Hi there.
Okay, i've been down this road, and it turned out greatly for me.
Okay, my opinion, i love to hold hands:)
and the arm around her thing, if you're going to do that, which is okay if you guys are in the right seating, and comfortable and things, put your arm over her shoulder, not her waist, because sometimes it can bbe a bit uncomfortable.
oh and the kiss things, you're seventeen, and usually people do kiss on first dates at aobut that age.
Uh, i guess don't force her into anything, but if she wants its, GO FOR IT:)
haha.
good luck@!
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