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What do really women want?
What do women want? because i have tried my best to please a woman that i really loved by all means, and what do i get? She cheats on me! But i really love her no matter what!
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i'll be completely honest and jokes aside: us women have no clue what we want! it's as if women just want everything and it's very difficult to pinpoint exactly where we are coming from.
a woman is not going to all the time appreciate someone for what they're truly worth. as i can tell, you seem like a very sweet, genuine guy and if any woman (even if you love her) cheats on you, it isn't fair to you. you've put your time and effort into something that isn't being appreciated. there are many nice women out there who are willing to do anything to find a guy like you!
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Different women want different things. Since you've given this woman everything you can and she still cheated on you, I would say this woman isn't for you.
Cheating on someone is a very selfish thing to do. If you're 'ideal' woman is one that cheats on guys that do everything for her, then she's a woman that wants more than one person can possibly give her.
You need to move on. Yeah, yeah, you love her no matter what. No matter who she cheats on you with her how many times. You need to grow a backbone.
Most women I know like a guy that will fight for them. Have you ever seen the episode of Family Guy where Cleveland's wife cheats on him with his best friend? If you haven't seen it, basically Cleveland just tells his wife that it's okay and he even apologizes to her. Cleveland's wife then wants a divorce because her husband has no backbone and won't fight for her.
Women don't want guys that are cool with them cheating.
You need to put your foot down and tell her that what she's done is absolutely wrong. Let her know that you can do better and that you hope she has a good life sleeping with whoever. Tell her that you've done everything you can for her and that you are moving on.
It's the only sensible thing to do, especially if she's not showing remorse. If you don't show her that her actions have consequences, she's just going to keep cheating on you.
Good luck,
Darby
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Do you really think it’s a good thing that you can a love woman who betrays you and treats you like crap, if you believe you've done everything you can to please her?
It isn't a badge of honour to let people disrespect just because you 'love them no matter what!' that is just kind of dumb. Even if I loved the man who beat me up every evening, I wouldn’t stay with him and put up with it. I might keep on loving him, but I’d do it from the other side of the state with a solid restraining order.
Get some self respect, and don’t put up with this behaviour from a partner! Unless you make it clear this is NOT okay and you won’t accept it now, or in the future, it will happen again because you’ve taught her it’s okay to treat you that way.
If you teach someone that they can get what they want (you!) and the other thing they want too (somebody else on the side), a lot of people will go ahead and do just that. If it's not okay, say so, and be prepared to remove yourself from thier life if they don't change thier behavoir.
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