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6 month anniversary
Posted Sunday July 5 2009, 2:04 am
Im 15/f and he is 17/m. I live in NY city NY. Me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary is in like 2 weeks, and he is really into anniversaries. Hes telling me how hes planning this huge thing to do with me, and hes so excited for it and im liek oh...cool? Idk he obsesses over this stuff. So i want to get him something nice for our anniversary. I am willing to spend up to $80. Haha im going all out for this. He is very into baseball. He loves the yankees and plays on 2 baseball teams. He LOVES his music. He plays guitar, and has an acoustic. He listens to leik Alesana, Forever the sickest kids, Dance gavin dance, Anberlin, Breathe carolina, and such. We are going to warped tour together, so going to a concert wont really work. Also, we have ...
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Im lost and I dont know what to do anymore..
Posted Saturday July 4 2009, 11:55 pm
Yesterday is when all the drama began(sorry if its really long please answer to it though!!!)..
Me and my bestfriend had planned for our boyfriends from Vernon lets call them, B.(my bf) and K. (bestfriends bf) to come out to see us and hang out with us the whole day. So the day before I cleaned the whole house so it looked nice and I even tidied up the deck and what not. So it would be nice to hang out. And that night my boyfriend b, and my bestfriends bf K and a few of their freinds were on the phone talking to me and they told me they were excited to come and didnt say anything about not showing up. The next day my bestfriend comes over at like 11:30am, and we are sitting around playing guitar hero, she was trying to get ahold of K...
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secrets to a great relationship...?
Posted Saturday July 4 2009, 11:44 pm
ive heard that trust, communication, and love are 3 things you need in order to have a healthy relationship. we trust eachother, we communicate(most of the time, its mostly me communicating. but he does, sometimes, when somethings really bugging him), and we're totally head over heals for eachother, as far as i know. and yet, we're still having problems! we get in fights every other day and end up not talking for a few days, and im so sick of being stressed out by all this,
how can i fix this? any advice?
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Lovers years apart..
Posted Saturday July 4 2009, 10:41 pm
Being bored and curious one Saturday afternoon, I ventured into a random online forum, signed up, and started chatting. Weeks after that, I met a guy. Great. So we kept talking, liking each other more and more, and having a lot in common. Then we started "dating". But has become so much more than an internet relationship, for both of us. We share everything with each other. I'm in love with him.. in love with him for exactly who he is and by some miracle, he loves me the same way.
Now here's the problem. He thinks I'm 19 years old, like him, because that's what I claimed when we first met. I didn't think it would matter because no way could it turn into anything serious. I'm actually 15 years old. We've never done a...
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sexier kissing?
Posted Saturday July 4 2009, 9:44 pm
17/f
i need some tips for spicing up make out sessions with my boyfriend of six months.
i usually lightly bite his lip sometimes.
sometimes when things start heating up i sit backwards in his lap with my legs spread around his waist. then i softly grind against his parts. then the kissing heats up a whole lot.
i'd just like a few tips to turn both of us and make it more enjoyable instead of the same thing every time. i don't want him to get bored. anything? thanks. <3
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getting over someone
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 2:50 pm
ive been with my boyfrend on and off 10 months and im done he's done but i'm just not over him and me not being over him shows there's a chance we'll get back together which i do not want is there anyways to get my mind off him to move on please help!
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Confused
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 2:11 pm
16/f
So, me and my ex boyfriend broke up after a 3 month relationship. I know thats not a very long time but we ended up loving eachother. The reason why we broke up was because of some of the things he did. He kept stuff from me and lied a bit. He was a lot of drama. So, we have been broken up for alomost 2 months now. During this time, i havent found anybody i like. I have been on one date since then and i dont like the guy. A lot of guys have told me they like me but i still liked my ex.
We didnt talk or text for quite a while. Then one night he texted me and said he missed me and was depressed because we havent talked in a long time and he really still loved me. I told him we should just be friends and then see wh...
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is it true?
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 12:01 pm
Hey okay I've recently heard this, is it true that boys are okay with inexperienced girls? That they like the "innocent type"? We're talking never been kissed...
14/F
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my boyfriend beats me up..
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 11:17 am
im 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. he has beaten me up in the past and even broken my thumb before. i know abuse is a cycle and it has to be broken but i of course thought things might work out and i stayed because i have nowhere else to go either and no one else in my life to help me right now. he knows he has total control because i dont work right now so he controls everything in my whole life. if things dont go his way then he just hits me. i do want to leave but i have no one and no im not going to a shelter and he knows that so he just keeps doing what he wants to. the point is what can i do to get out of this besides going to a shelter. if i leave and go to a shelter then i need to leave my dog beh...
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overprotective ex
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 7:36 am
14f
A little while ago, my first boyfriend who I was completely crazy about dumpped me for another. We decided to stay friends so we see a lot of each other. He hurt me terribly but even so, I still have feelings for him and he knows it. He's also made it perfectly clear that he liked the other girl better and dropped me like it was nothing. He openly hits on her while I'm around him. Well, so the other day my ex needed my phone and found a love confession from this really sweet guy. Automatically, he gets pissed and says "If i had known he was talking to you when we were going out...he would be dead". Then he says "That bastard. Tell him to fuck off." Then later a couple of days later he asks what I'm doi...
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Desperate,Sorry,First Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 6:38 am
My boyfriend and I broke up last week due to another girl who claimed to like him and gave him the impression that if he were to dump me, she would get with him. Turns out, she was never even remotely interested to begin with and I ended up dumped. We went to the movies two days after the break up and he hit on her while she was sitting right next to me. I didn't mind because we decided to remain friends. That same day, she told him she wasn't interested and just wanted to break us up for some strange reason. (idc about her reasons) The next day, he tells me he wants to get back together. Although I'm still crazy about him I couldn't help but think, "What the hell? He can't be serious." It would be pathetic for me to get back with...
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Strengthening the bond
Posted Tuesday June 30 2009, 3:29 am
17/f
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half months, met briefly through mutual friends in September and were sort of reintroduced in early February. I've been through my first love but I deffinately feel stronger about this boyfriend. From the first day we started dating I've known that I can trust him 100% and he's just overall a really good guy. My parents like him, he even met my ex and thinks he's a cool guy. I lost my virginity to him. He tells me all the time how much I mean to him and how I helped him change for the better. (He used to smoke pot and drink a lot and now he's totally quit both). His best friends tell me it's the happiest they've ever seen him and I consider comments like that from his friends to...
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He's experienced...I'm not...
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 11:55 pm
Me: 14/F
Him: 15/M
Okay, I have JUST turned 14 and I have no experience with boys. I've liked boys but I have always wanted to wait to date an all that. Well I really like this boy and I think he could be my first boyfriend. But the problem is I have never made out... Actually, I've never even kissed... This boy seems really sweet and knows I've never had a boyfriend which I hope means he knows that I'm not experienced at all. If he knows this, shouldn't he be uninterested? And if he doesn't, won't he be disappointed? He's pretty experienced and I don't know what he'll expect or if he'll I don't know, not want me? Once he finds out that I don't know what to do... Help?
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Scared
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 11:27 pm
19/m.
I have been with my current girlfriend for over a year and four months already. We have been in a long distance relationship for the past few months since I had gone away to college and she just recently moved up with me so living with one another so close to each other seems like a shock as of a now but that will go away promptly. My fear however, is that considering I am only her second boyfriend (the times between her past relationship and my current one were insignificant, and she went out with her past bf for well over 3 years) is that she seems to yearn to live a single lifestyle and I really don't want her to want that. She is constantly asking me if she thinks she is pretty, only because she wants other guys to...
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I want to meet this girl
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 6:58 pm
I'm in a bit of a sticky situation. I beleive I've found my perfect match when it comes to finding a girlfriend. But here's the problem. She lives in a different state which makes matters worse. We both have a lot of the same interests, and both want to meet each other. The thing is I've only known her for a little while, but just started talking a lot recently. There are a few obstacles I will have to get through if I should choose to meet this girl. First one is that my parent will not be fond of the idea at all, I'm not sure of how her parents will feel about her meeting someone from a different area, and I don't have any money to travel to where or near a place she lives at which can make matters worse. I know that it is not a g...
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No love life.
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 6:51 pm
16/female
So i'll be a senior in the fall and i've never been kissed nor have i been in a relationship. I've only "talked" to boys a few times throughout HS. It's so embarrassing. I think you have to ACTUALLY be in my position to know how pitiful this is. So I like this boy and he likes me and we randomly started talking about sucking dick and eating out girls. I'm not a fan of either and so he just started to judge me. He told me I was crazy for not wanting a guy to eat me out. People judge me all the time, and I hate the feeling of being judged. Sometimes, I think I would've been better off giving my all to the first boy I talked too. Because I can't take this anymore. All I want is one nice boy..is that asking fo...
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Am I off-base here?
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 3:04 pm
I'm 21. Boyfriend (Eric) is 24. His brother (Allen) is 21, his brother's girlfriend (Mary) is 19, if it matters.
Mary's family has a lake house and a boat. She and Allen have been together about a year and a half. My guy (Eric) and I have been together for about four. Eric often goes over to Mary's house with Allen, and they all go on the boat and do fun things. I'm never invited because Allen hates me.
Mary doesn't have a problem with me, but she won't argue with Allen over me, and I don't want her to. I get upset, and yes a little jealous, when Eric goes over there. I feel like I should be allowed to join in whenever there are girlfriends involved. I understand that it's Mary's house and therefore she has the final say in ...
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attitude fromt h e husband
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 1:09 pm
My husband gives me attitude just about everyday, when i call him on the phone he answers the phone "WHAT" and this is the only call of the day, instead of hi how is your day going, but then i notice when we are together and he answers the call of a friend or a relative he answers in the most loving manner. When i ask questions just to start a converstion he answers me with attitude and is short with his answers as if me being around him bothers him. Then he also answers me like if i am stupid for asking certain questions. When i attempt to talk to him about it all he says is "i dont want to hear it" and if you keep it on your going to have hell to pay and what he means by hell is ignoring me and giving me more attitude...
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She's making a mistake, should I tell her how I feel?
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 1:30 am
This is a really long story so I'll try to keep it short. Basically this girl was my best friend since I've been 4. Even though I moved away, we kept in touch and by the time I was 18 we started having real feelings for each other. So much so that she planned to come to my same college. But she ended up finding a guy who followed her down to my college town. Basically it broke my heart. Here's where it gets complicated, we kept in touch again for the past 5 years that she's been with this guy. So I'm hanging out with her and she tells me that her bf of 5 years cheated on her, and had a kid because of it. They were buying a house together, and he didn't tell her until the last second so she wouldn't have a chance to leave him. Also, I learne...
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Complicated and Confused.
Posted Monday June 29 2009, 12:08 am
Okay, so im a 16 year old female. I've been friends with this guy whos 18 for almost 2 years now. We dated last summer, but i thought it was too weird and it didn't feel right, so we broke up. We stayed friends and he has always liked me, but i didnt like him as much. Recently, i have started to like him more, and we kissed for the first time a few months ago. Now we kiss everytime we see each other, but we are not dating. But ever since we kissed, he has been acting totally different. He used to be really caring and helpful, and good friends with my best friend, but now he treats her like shit, and she hates him. He parties all the time [im still in high school, and he just graduated]. I totally understand that this is what he wants to do,...
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