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Complicated and Confused.
Okay, so im a 16 year old female. I've been friends with this guy whos 18 for almost 2 years now. We dated last summer, but i thought it was too weird and it didn't feel right, so we broke up. We stayed friends and he has always liked me, but i didnt like him as much. Recently, i have started to like him more, and we kissed for the first time a few months ago. Now we kiss everytime we see each other, but we are not dating. But ever since we kissed, he has been acting totally different. He used to be really caring and helpful, and good friends with my best friend, but now he treats her like shit, and she hates him. He parties all the time [im still in high school, and he just graduated]. I totally understand that this is what he wants to do, but its totally changing him. Im worried too. He is now really mean to me, and when i tell him something that bothers me, he acts like im making a huge deal out of something. It feels like if it isn't a big deal to him, its not at all. But last night i was with this other guy that me and him have liked each other for a while now. We had kinda a thing a while back, and have know each other for around 2 or 3 years. We have kissed before, but last night we kissed again. He was amazingly sweet and caring, and understood why i was all confused. I feel like ever since i kissed my other guy, that he got what he wanted, and now he can treat me like a booty call, or a trophy girl. But the other guy doesn't do that at all, and i dont know what to do. I like them both a lot, but im scared to hurt both guyes. The first one just wants some, and the second guy feels like if we ever tried to date, that it would end up that we would just break up and it would ruin our friendship. I feel like if i went with one the other would hate me. I dont know what to do, and i feel like a total whore for kissing both guyes. I dont know what to do, and i really need help. Im sorry this is so long, but im so confused and im scared that this could end in the worst way possible.
Anything Helps; Thanks.
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these are just my thoughts...witch guy do you like more?...and if none of them wanna date you just be friends. there are way to many guys out there and you shouldent have to pick between two guys that might not work out for you
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