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Im lost and I dont know what to do anymore..
Yesterday is when all the drama began(sorry if its really long please answer to it though!!!)..
Me and my bestfriend had planned for our boyfriends from Vernon lets call them, B.(my bf) and K. (bestfriends bf) to come out to see us and hang out with us the whole day. So the day before I cleaned the whole house so it looked nice and I even tidied up the deck and what not. So it would be nice to hang out. And that night my boyfriend b, and my bestfriends bf K and a few of their freinds were on the phone talking to me and they told me they were excited to come and didnt say anything about not showing up. The next day my bestfriend comes over at like 11:30am, and we are sitting around playing guitar hero, she was trying to get ahold of K. To see if they were on their way to the mall where we were gunna meet them for 12:00. She didnt get an answer so she was saying all this stuff about them not going to show up and everything and I told her about talking to them and stuff so I was posative they would show. So me and her phoned K. And the phone was shut off, so then we called B. His phone was busy so we decided to walk to the mall and meet them, we got there at 12:00 exact, and noone was there we stood by the store looking stupid for about 20-25 min. And no-one came, so we called K, and his phone was still off, and then we called B. and his phone was still busy. So me and me and my friend went to the other stores and looked around for a few mins and then walked back and seen no-one was there so we walk all the way home. When we get home it was already 1:14 and we didnt get a call or nothing so we tryed to call them again, still off, and still busy. We did this about 3 more times, and then we decided to walk back up to the mall adn see if they were there, we walked there, and decided to sit there for a while, we sat there for about 35-40 min. In between we would call and see if it wasnt off or still busy, and ocasionally check if they called just incase. then we walk home, and we were all upset, and my friend grabs the phone from me in anger and calls K. he actually answers the tosses the phone to be because she is surpresed. I started talking to him, all he said was that they didnt have a ride back, or their, and they slept in late, and blah blah, I told them that I worked realyl hard for them to be able to come and that convincing my parents to let them come over wasnt easy, and that if they went to sleep at a decent hour they could have woken up, and nothing could have stopped their parents from waking them up, and i asked him about why his phone was off and he said it was dead but then it turned on when we called! RIGHT! and I asked by B homephone was busy and they said his brothers much have not hung it up or his mom was on for 3 hours! and that they didnt say anything about not comming the night they called, and they said they had a ride here and that they would take the bus back, and I told them that my parents would drive them to their house, and it would have been a lot better if they called and said something along the lines of sorry that they couldnt make it but they dont have a ride, or something like that! Then my friend dumped K, because he hung up on me because he didnt know what to say, and then my friend kept asking me if I should dump my bf b, and stuff and then while me and my freind were at the beach she texted her "ex bf K" and asked to get backtogether with him, then we got home and i was on the laptop and my freind was on her her laptop tlaking to them, and my bf B signs on and says "Hey sexy" well that just made me more upset!! No sorry I didnt show up or anything just that, then i said hi, and hes like sup? and im like pissed off and hes like i know i was with K and so and so, and I was like yeah, and hes like why are you pissed off at me? and then i was just about to tell him why and he signed off!! and didnt come back on! Then my friend was talking to b and K's friend J on the computer and supposedly K and B were at his house now, and K was being mouthy and telling us to stop being bitches and stuff, then J was tellhing us to stop being bitchy, then, my freind asked K to get back together wit hher and hes like I got 1 thing to say to you "Its over bitch!" then signs out, and then I was talking to J on the laptop after B and K got off, and J said that B and K said we should stop being such bitches about it and to stop acting like bitches. And I explained why i was so upset and mad to him, but he didnt even listen! he stuck up for them!! So then my friend is asking J if Im still dating B, and if B still likes me and stuff.. Now I havent talked to them since then and I dont know what to do! I like B so so so much, and I dont know if I should dump him or not, my mom, dad, and bestfriend think I should dump him because I deserve better then that, and that i need to be treated right and that if I let this time slide he will just do it again and again(Is this ture? or what? I want to know!!) and I dont know what to do Im confused about it all.. I want him to explaan himself but then again I dont because all it will be is excuse after excuse, and I dont want to be played.. I need other peoples knowledge of this kind of stuff, not just family. I dont care if its mean or sweet, I need all the help I can get right now!! Im sorry it was so long I tryed to keep it short but at the sametime give you lots of info! Please reply soon! The sooner the better! Thanks!!
--Katie xxx
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When you have a boyfriend who isn't old enough to drive himself, you're going to get this. They were probably hoping for a ride that didn't pan out.
They should have had the decency to call and let you know what was going on. Again, at their age they are immature and inconsiderate. I'm not going to say that you have to break up with him. You do need to seriously sit him down and tell him you are upset, why you are upset and that you will not tolerate this kind of behavior.
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I'm going to be completely honest here.
This is a large question and I didn't read it. However, I did see the name K mentioned so I decided to respond. I doubt anyone has the attention span to read this behemoth of a question, so my advice is to delete it, simplify it, and repost it. If you ask it to me directly, I'll even do my best to answer it.
Sorry. It's just my nature to notice questions when people use the initial K as a name. Makes me feel like they're talking about me.
I figure you're going to rate me down for not actually answering your question. I'm used to it. But if you break it down and send it to my inbox, I'll help you.
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