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He's experienced...I'm not...
Me: 14/F
Him: 15/M
Okay, I have JUST turned 14 and I have no experience with boys. I've liked boys but I have always wanted to wait to date an all that. Well I really like this boy and I think he could be my first boyfriend. But the problem is I have never made out... Actually, I've never even kissed... This boy seems really sweet and knows I've never had a boyfriend which I hope means he knows that I'm not experienced at all. If he knows this, shouldn't he be uninterested? And if he doesn't, won't he be disappointed? He's pretty experienced and I don't know what he'll expect or if he'll I don't know, not want me? Once he finds out that I don't know what to do... Help?
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If he does know, trust me he thinks it's cute. Most guys dig the innocent types. And if he doesn't know, I'm sure he won't mind. My current boyfriend was my first, and he loves the thought that I've never kissed another guy before.
Don't worry about it though hun! I would tell him that you've never been kissed before, I think he'd like the idea and think its adorable ^.<
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14 is really young. It's not a negative thing against you that you're inexperienced. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16. Everyone's different.
Try not to put so much pressure on yourself. And no, inexperience should not turn a guy off. You are who you are. A male's interest isn't based on what they think a girl's skill level is going to be, but is based on how pretty they think she is, how fun she is to be around, how happy she makes him, how interesting he thinks she is...
Don't worry about experience. It will come in time and with the right boys. Remind yourself that you have chosen not to dive into dating super young (like 12?) and that you're a normal girl who can figure out dating just like everyone else.
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