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Posted Monday July 27 2009, 11:11 am
I am in a relationship, with a man who will do absolutely anything for me. ANYTHING. He is forgiving, great to my 3 kids that are not his - just a wonderful man. He loves me. I cant love him back, I think it's because of my girls dad. I love him still and pretend that I dont. We even all hang out together at times. I even make friends with my ex's "candidates". I cant figure out if it is the thick wall I built around my heart due to all the heartaches and dissapointments or if it really is because I still love my ex. I dont think my ex and I can ever be together again. I care about the man I am with dearly but dont see myself loving him or falling in love. My kids are so attached to him and I dont want to stay in it becaus...
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mixed signals!
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:57 am
Hi guys.
I have a real problem :-/ There is a guy that I really like, his name is Steve. For like 3 months now we have been close, & he has said he really likes me on many occasions. We have never committed to anything like "being boyfriend and girlfriend" but basically we wouldn't date anyone else. At first we were just getting to know eachother as we had just met, but recently we have become close. Things have been bad with us lately. Firstly another guy(Nick) asked me out right infront of him, and despite me saying no to the guy, Steve was still annoyed. His friends say he has trust issues and has been hurt in the past etc so I can understand. Me and Nick are just friends and it will always be this way (as I ...
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fridgetness....being a fridget
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 4:18 am
13/m
with girls i go out with i always am afraid to hold their hands or do anything like that and my girlfriend dumped me just today because of it i really liked her and she was really nice to me and i liked her alot
i guess she just got tired of me being like that
oh i am talking to her now she said it seemed like i ignored her so now i feel like rubbish because i made her feel that way
so does anyone have any tips for being less fridget and being able to show my feeling a bit better
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Should I move on or gradually keep trying?
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 3:07 am
Well, I am a 19 year old female and I met a 22 year old guy in the middle of March. We hit it off pretty good. Only problem was he lived in England and I lived in the States. Four thousand miles apart, not cool. After a month and a half things started going down hill. He became extremely emotionally distant and very busy. I'd probably get only five minutes a week if I was really lucky. Finally after another month and a half I got fed up with it and walked away from the relationship.
Apparently, that struck a blow to his pride. Not but a few days after I left I heard news he was back out in the dating arena. I too also got involved with a crazy psycho unintentionally for a month, but finally ended it. Come to find ...
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Together or Apart?
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 1:54 am
Background:
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 months now. i know that doesnt seem like a long time, but it's our third time together. He seems to always come back in my life. We dated for 4 months then broke up for about 3 and now we've been back together since.He said I love you about 2 weeks ago, and meant it. It's not those 3 words that get thrown around between us, it's sincere. We're going to college this upcoming fall. I leave in less than a month. I'm going 4 hours west from home he's going 3 hours north from home.
Question:
Should we stay together and try to make things work with the long distant relationship? I mean I'll barely see him because it'll be hard to come home let alone visit ...
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boyy help.
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 11:16 pm
16/f
alriqht well theres this boy haha. we've hung out in a group of people once or twice.. i know he thinks im cute but he thinks alot of girls are cute..(hes a flirt) i havent kissed him even though i want too. he deffinitly doesnt like me but i know he wants too hook up & shyt. hes not a player though because hes had long relationships before. problem is his best friend LIKES ME. therefore if we do hang out in a group like nothing could happen for that reason anyways. so how do i become "girlfriend" material and not just a cute hook up buddie? =(
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so embarrassed
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 10:50 pm
15/f
okay, so im 15 years old and going into my sophomore year of high school. i have never had a boyfriend nor have i ever been kissed. (i know lame) the reason is i dont understand why. i am not bragging when i say this, but people have told me that i am a very attractive girl even model pretty. i am not heavy either. i guess you could say i am shy. i am not slutty like most girls and i have goals. i really dont understand why i cant get a boyfriend or even a boy to kiss me. i guess im picky i dont know? but every boy i seem to like never likes me back
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messsssssssssed up
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 9:29 pm
So, I'm about to sound completely messed up. So i need some help on this hah. Alright, so there's this guy Josh. He treats me like crap sometimes, he doesn't even care, but I've NEVER EVER liked someone SO MUCH as him. I'm like...addicted to this guy. I can't even explain. but all he really cares about is sex, and we aren't even dating. I bet he talks to other girls and blah but i like him a lot..and theres this other guy alex who is nice but one of those feminine guys? Who are really sentitive..but I have a feeling hes gonna ask me out tomorrow. And I don't want to get into that but he'd treat me better. AND THEN there was this guy DRAKE that I was talking to earlier this summer, we hung out and got really close, but now he doens't even ta...
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mixed signals
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 9:19 pm
15/f
okay. so i like this guy a lot. and i think he likes me, but im not sure. i went to this party the other night and he was there. and i got his attention because he texted me 20 minutes after the party ended. so we have been texting each other off and on for the past few weeks, and sometimes he will just stop answering me. which is weird since he texts me first. and whenever i mention hanging out he says either alright or cool? what does that mean. im getting mixed signals. HELP PLEASE :)
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did he do it?!
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 4:38 pm
okay this is kinda long sorry but please i dont know what else to do. okay i love my boyfriend to death and weve been together for over a year. he has cheated on me before and i looked past it. hes hurt me a few times in the past but ive learned to look past it and try to not throw it all away. ive heard something about him before and i just didnt feel like it was enough to break up with him for good. i did however breakup with him until i could just figure things out. Yesturday i heard that he had sex with someone on his senior class trip ( its a weekend .. after their senior prom) we can call her brittany i found out kinda late about it. and i heard that brittany ..her sister told one of my friends. so right off the bat i totally believed...
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When do I break up with him?
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 1:24 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Before we started dating, we were really good friends, but about 4 months after we started dating I got really bored with him. He is also REALLY obsessed with me and I still want to be his friend which is why I haven't broken up with him. However, in a month we are going to New Jersey together because his parents invited me. They paid for the extra hotel room and everything for me already. I want to break up with him but I don't know if I should do it before I go on vacation with him, or after. Thanks for any help you can give me ♥
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NERVOUS! about asking him to hang out.
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 3:30 am
19, female.
so there's this guy, we use to be pretty close like THREE years ago. we still see each other now and then but its nothing like what we were before. we're both attracted to each other but i just always have a hard time even texting him, let alone ask him to hang out. its that "having a crush on someone, nervousness" but like a week ago i had to ask him something so then we started talking and i was like can we hangout when i get back from vacation? and he was like yea im down. and so now i'm back but i just dont really know how to ask him to hangout. he's always busy too, playing sports. he always has hockey and baseball. so i kind of want to just be like "so...when are we hanging out" but i don...
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Getting Gemini Ex Back?
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 2:53 am
My ex and I broke up quite a while ago, but I still have feelings for him. We are both 16, and I know that he's probably just immature and that gemini's have a split personality and are flighty, but is there anything I can do to get him back? We are pretty good friends now and we talk every now and then. He used to like me a lot, and I was the only girl that he's made his official girlfriend in a while.. so I'm kind of hoping that counts for something. Thank you.
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i still care
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 1:14 am
I'm a girl & i'm 16 years old. I was talking to this kid for almost five months, and i liked him a lot. Obviously i thought he liked me too, considering thats what he told me. He went to prom last minute, then met a chick there & they started dating right away. I was left hanging and he wanted nothing to do with me, and this was out of nowhere. I couldnt do anything about it, and it made me feel helpless. He's still dating this girl and i dont even know why. I dont know why i still care, but i do. He still textes me sometimes and i think he wants us to be friends. The whole situation still has me confused, what should I do?
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complications
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 10:57 pm
Okay so I had a problem with two boys earlier that alot of people gave me advice on. I took a short break from talking to two boys that I cared so much about so that I could decide which one I wanted to be with. When I decided I needed only Jason in my life I waited a couple days then I was going to go hang out with himat his house. (turns out I shoulda called first) Well when I got there his mom told me he was in his room and I could just go in. when I came in the guy I had cared so much for and spent the last six months with was kissing his new "girlfreind" how suprising this all was concidering just 8 days ago he was with me. Anyways I pretty much acted like i could care less and everything was all fine. So when I left his hous...
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Fiance left me for his 16 year old step sister....
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 5:10 pm
Hello.... My name is Sara. Im 22 F.....I guess my question story is this.... I was in a relationship with my ex for five years. We were highschool sweethearts...It had been a rocky road for us and we had our breaks and break ups...but we always got better and ended up with eachother in the end. I loved him in every way I could...with everything I had. A few years ago, while I was living in another city (only 2 hours away) for college, he confessed to me that he had sent graphic nude, and explicit images of himself to his then 13 year old step sister....and she had sent them back. He was 21.
I had never cried so hard in my life, and even though it was probably stupid of me, I loved him, and took him back. its been almost 3 years si...
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How old was Ashley Tisdale when she got her period
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:51 pm
How old was Ashley Tisdale when she got her period
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I'm sad and dumb.
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:50 pm
I'm 13 and a girl. Okay so this guy asked me out and I like him a lot. But I said no because I don't want a boyfriend. (i'm dumb) But now he's going out with this other girl and I can't flirt with him anymore.. And i like hugging people A LOT. But I can't hug him anymore either! And i always tell people that I love them.. but now I can't do that, either! They're always together and it makes me so sad because HE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE HER! he said he loves me but he wants a girlfriend. I'm making him sound like a jerk but he is awesome and fantastic! At his birthday party, I WENT THERE TO SEE HIM! but I didn't get to talk to him because he seemed to try to avoid me (i guess he thought he might flirt and get into trouble)
What do I do?
Signed,
Confused
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how do you know if a girl like you?
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:49 pm
how do you know if a girl like you?
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Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:47 pm
to make things easier the guy i like will be - j and his friends will be a
my two friends met last year at a party i had. i told her that i liked j and i kinda liked a so she walked up the j and was like hey want to make out. and they made out and i cried. i am still friends with her but still mad at her because she knew i liked him. and just last week i told her i like him. and that friday she made out with him again) i have a right to be extremely mad at her right? should i trust her agian?
xoxo thanks xoxo
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