okay this is kinda long sorry but please i dont know what else to do. okay i love my boyfriend to death and weve been together for over a year. he has cheated on me before and i looked past it. hes hurt me a few times in the past but ive learned to look past it and try to not throw it all away. ive heard something about him before and i just didnt feel like it was enough to break up with him for good. i did however breakup with him until i could just figure things out. Yesturday i heard that he had sex with someone on his senior class trip ( its a weekend .. after their senior prom) we can call her brittany i found out kinda late about it. and i heard that brittany ..her sister told one of my friends. so right off the bat i totally believed he did it but he said he didnt. when he said that he didnt i didnt believe him still. i went to see him for about 10 minutes and decdied to go back to where i was. when i got back i got a call from him saying i talked to brittany and shewill call you herself and tell you i wasnt sure if he would just tell her not to say anything but hes not that close with herbut.. theres always a chance which makes it hard. i told him whatever . i get a call but its not brittany... its from one of his best friends .. ill call her steph. and steph said brittany is a pathological liar ( they dont hate eachother either.. theyre friends) and my boyfriend would tell her if him and brittany really did do something. so now im thinking she can of just said that to but would she risk having brittany mad at her?! i dont know what to belieeve!!pleaassee help! again.. im sorry its longg
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lacexface answered Monday July 27 2009, 1:27 am: I honestly don't think you should have taken him back in the first place. Guys who cheat once, will most likely do it again. He's hurt you as well, what exactly in the relationship is there to keep? You don't want a guy whose going to lie to you, and have you keep questioning the truth. Sometimes the mature thing to do is walk away and move on, as hard as it may be. As long as you keep looking past every bad thing he does, he'll keep doing it. If people are spreading rumors about someone having sex, especially if this person's sister is spreading it, those rumors are most likely true. Don't trust this guy, because any guy who had true feelings for you, wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place. [ lacexface's advice column | Ask lacexface A Question ]
theadvicegiver answered Sunday July 26 2009, 7:48 pm: well if steph said that your boyfriend would of told her that he had slept with brittany than i would belive steph and your boyfriend so if you to are broke up get back together and if your not 100% sure there telling the truth well some day the truth will come out. [ theadvicegiver's advice column | Ask theadvicegiver A Question ]
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