to make things easier the guy i like will be - j and his friends will be a
my two friends met last year at a party i had. i told her that i liked j and i kinda liked a so she walked up the j and was like hey want to make out. and they made out and i cried. i am still friends with her but still mad at her because she knew i liked him. and just last week i told her i like him. and that friday she made out with him again) i have a right to be extremely mad at her right? should i trust her agian?
JustJessOx answered Saturday July 25 2009, 6:15 pm: Hey there,
yes you have the right to be mad at this girl.she doesnt seem like much of a friend if she purposly makes out with someone after you saying you like them,because thats all shes doing.
she doesnt even like him shes just doing it to get at you. a good friend if she liked this guy would have talked to you about it,and not even wanted to make out with him in respect for your feelings.
in my opinion this girl doesnt care,she doesnt seem like a good friend and she isnt worth it.
you don't need people like that in your life who hurt you like that,you deserve better friends.
as for the guy?who needs him. theres plenty of really nice guys out there let your "friend" have him,i gauruntee she wont want him when she finds out your not interested anymore then it will proove my point and youl know not to waste your time on her.
if you continue to stay friends with this girl i would advice not telling her anything about who you like,though what kind of friendship is that.
Hope you see where im coming from and that i helped :)
Much <3
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LOL_x0x answered Saturday July 25 2009, 6:12 pm: I would be mad at her. She KNEW you liked him and made out with him anyways? I'm sorry, but that's a huge betrayal of girl code.
I would talk to her about it, don't just TELL her, sit her down and have a talk about it. Let her know you went home in tears after the party when they made out and it majorly demolished your trust in her.
Yes, you should trust her again, but only if she apologizes and never pulls a stunt like this again, because it was a really shady thing for her to do =/
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