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Okay so I had a problem with two boys earlier that alot of people gave me advice on. I took a short break from talking to two boys that I cared so much about so that I could decide which one I wanted to be with. When I decided I needed only Jason in my life I waited a couple days then I was going to go hang out with himat his house. (turns out I shoulda called first) Well when I got there his mom told me he was in his room and I could just go in. when I came in the guy I had cared so much for and spent the last six months with was kissing his new "girlfreind" how suprising this all was concidering just 8 days ago he was with me. Anyways I pretty much acted like i could care less and everything was all fine. So when I left his house I guess I was very on the reboundish, when I ran into matt. This is jasons best freind, a guys that hits on me everytime I see him but also talks down on me at times > he's the total player type. So anyways we were talking and when he put his arms around my waist it just felt so great to be touched that I couldnt stop him, same when he kissed me I wanted to kiss him back and I did many times. The thing is I knew when I didnt have sex with him immediately he was going to tell me to leave. I expected it because I know him and how he treats girls, but if I expected it why did it hurt so much? Why did I care? And when he told me he wanted me to leave he said it in this sweet little way and then said but will I see you later? outloud I said no but in my heart I yelled yes. I dont like him never have but why do I want to see him so badly again, and why is all this crap happening to me? please help me
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you probably wanted it because for those few minutes, he made you feel god after having your heart broken. it sounds like both these kids are losers and you can do better. if i was you i would block both of them out of your life and move on, go hang out with your friends go to a movie, to the mall, a game any where to get your mind off of these to, and you never know you could meet a new guy doing these things. remember the old saying theres plenty of fish in the see.
goodluck.
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When you saw jason and that other girl you wanted someone to love you and Matt could maybe deep inside you also wanted matt so you could make jason jealous. I say both are bad for you cuz ones a sleaze and the other cant wait for you for long. Dump both and get someone who will care for you. -Farrah Gonzalez
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Ok when you saw jason and that other girl you were hurt and wanted someone to love you. Matt was the one around so you didnt object because you wanted someone to do that and you didnt mind who did it. Also since matt is jasons best friend i think you would make jason jealous by being with matt. This is a common thing when a relationship ends so that crap happens to everyone and i know it sucks. Both jason and Matt are bad for you because matts a sleaze and jason couldnt wait for you for 9 days before sucking face with another girl. This is wat i think, and get a bf who will treat you better. Hope this helps let me know if it does! -Farrah Gonzalez
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oh hun, i know what you're going through.
like you said, your feeling like this because you're on the rebound. matt is like a comfort to you, even though he only wants sex it doesn't matter because right now, you just want to be held and feel special after what happened with jason.
sometimes in your life, you need lust. you need the adrenaline rush of knowing that this is not forever and that you're not committed to anything. this is how you're feeling with matt.
i know that feeling when you see someone you love so much, be with someone whose not you. i'm going through the same thing. and sometimes i just get so upset that i just want to go and hook up with a guy, wishing that he would know. it's just an initial reaction.
i'm SO proud of you though that you said no to him, obviously this is not someone you want to get involved with if he asks you to leave because you won't give him sex.
another reason you may want to see him again is because you know it's not right. it's that feeling like you know you shouldn't do it, but it makes you want to even more. like you know what the outcome is going to be, but you don't care because it's what you wanted at that moment.
you may also want him because it's jason's best friend. since you're so upset with jason, you want to get back at him for doing this to you by getting with his best friend.
i know how you're feeling. all these things run through my mind too girly. you have to stay strong (: please! i know you're a strong girl, i know you'll make good decisions.
if you need ANYTHING else, i'm always here for ya!
♥ LU
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