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should we be friends??
15/f
I have a profile on Facebook and under my friend suggestions is this guy that I went to school with since pre-k to 8th grade. Ever since I first saw him in pre-k I thought that he was really cute. We became not so much friends but in between acquaintances and friends. The entire time I went to school with him everyone thought that I had a huge crush on him, but I only thought that he was cute. I dont know if I should be friends with him or not. Im afraid to ask him to be my friend because Im afraid that he will say no. And if he says yes Im afraid that my schoolmates will make fun of me again for being in love with him. Im friends with all my schoolmates so its hard sometimes. I would ask my best friend but he's her ex,so I cant. Anyway and suggestions to what Im dealing with can help. Thanks and please help me.
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Just ask him to be your friend. There's really no big deal in adding him. It's just Facebook.
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You should ask him to be your friend. You shouldnt really care if people say you like him because people will always talk if not about you someone else. And if he doesnt want to be your friend the worst he can say is no. Guys come and go anyway. Dont mind peoples talk and just be friends with him. -Farrah Gonzalez
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I think you should definitely add him on Facebook! Maybe you could leave a note when you add him, like "hey! I didn't know you had a Facebook!" You shouldn't care what your ppl at your school will say. It's not like they personally know the relationship between you and him. You can try telling them that you don't like him, and if they don't believe you and still make fun of you, then so be it. At least you know the truth, don't let them get to you. You should also tell them how you feel about them teasing you. If they were your real friends, they would listen to you and understand. If he does add you on Facebook, I think you should try talking to him, start a conversation! Whether it be in a comment, or in a message. Don't just add him and not talk to him! Adding him in the first place would've been completely pointless then. If he decides not to add you, then that's ok, don't dwell too long over it. Just move on. :) Don't let social networking websites get you down. It's really easy for them too, like if someone doesn't add you, or your not in their 'top friends'....
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