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Together or Apart?


Question Posted Monday July 27 2009, 1:54 am

Background:
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 months now. i know that doesnt seem like a long time, but it's our third time together. He seems to always come back in my life. We dated for 4 months then broke up for about 3 and now we've been back together since.He said I love you about 2 weeks ago, and meant it. It's not those 3 words that get thrown around between us, it's sincere. We're going to college this upcoming fall. I leave in less than a month. I'm going 4 hours west from home he's going 3 hours north from home.

Question:
Should we stay together and try to make things work with the long distant relationship? I mean I'll barely see him because it'll be hard to come home let alone visit him at school or have him visit me. But I love him, he loves me. We can barely go 2 days without seeing eachother.

*Sorry it's long, but any help, advice, personal experiences would be helpful. Thanks in advance!


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modelkate11 answered Monday July 27 2009, 12:58 pm:
I'm in the same situation like many others. Been together 5 months (6 by the time I leave) and my classes start exactly one month from today. I'm going 4 hours east and he's going 3 hours south. We see each other everyday and we know its going to be a huge change in college but we're staying together. It was never a question of should we break up. I don't know if you can but I'm allowed to have a visitor come stay in my dorm for 2 nights and 3 days so we plan that he'll come visit me once a month. Its been proven that couples who forget that a breakup/divorce is an option last longer. So that's the method we're using.

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brriannnnax3 answered Monday July 27 2009, 11:51 am:
if you guys really lovve eachother try to make it work . you guys will find a way

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