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messsssssssssed up
So, I'm about to sound completely messed up. So i need some help on this hah. Alright, so there's this guy Josh. He treats me like crap sometimes, he doesn't even care, but I've NEVER EVER liked someone SO MUCH as him. I'm like...addicted to this guy. I can't even explain. but all he really cares about is sex, and we aren't even dating. I bet he talks to other girls and blah but i like him a lot..and theres this other guy alex who is nice but one of those feminine guys? Who are really sentitive..but I have a feeling hes gonna ask me out tomorrow. And I don't want to get into that but he'd treat me better. AND THEN there was this guy DRAKE that I was talking to earlier this summer, we hung out and got really close, but now he doens't even talk to me or respond to my textes? And there's no way he could have found out about Josh. I really don't know. Should I stick in the single life and keep juggling this around? Or...? This is so fucked up ahhahaha its killllin me.
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Josh is a prick and is the reason every girl out there gets so insecure because they get their hearrbroken by the likes of him.
So he treats you like crap, " doesn't care" and "he realy cares about sex" and you're not dating. Doesn't sound like a great guy at all, and I can't see why you'd find him so attractive when he has the charateristics of an asshole.
Don't waste your time with him, he'll only hurt you. I'm assuming it's only LUST with him and not true feelings, maybe I am wrong.
The second guy,
the feminine one? Sounds like a good boyfriend.Especiallly if he is sensitive, he'd be really considerate towards your feelings. HOWEVER don't lead him on if you don't have strong feelings, like the ones you do for Josh. That isn't fair. You can't force youself to like him you don't.
This third guy drake? Come off it! You hardly had any contact,and when you did you got on well. That's over now. He isn't speaking to you, so that isnt much of a problem, just let that go.
I can't advise you WHAT to do, HOWEVER stay away from Josh, he isnt any good for you. Number 2 sounds like a nice guy, so even if you dont like him, keep him in your life because he sounds like a good friend. And the third one, dont waste your time. If he hasn't bothered to contact you, he's either a prick like a josh who didnt care that much or just damn lazy.It may have been nice whislt it lasted, like a summer love sort of thing. But that's it.
Stay away from them for a while may a suggest, give yourself space to think about
Sage :) Hope I Helped
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Hiya,
Honestly this first guy sounds like a complete mess. I know exactly what you mean about being addicted. I've had that problem too, not being able to walk away from a guy that was a walking disaster. I suggest putting space in between you both. I wouldn't want to be anywhere near an oversexed jerk like him he's trouble. This second guy doesn't sound bad but from the way you describe him you can go without him. Don't lead this guy on. You know you don't like him very much, don't waste your time. This third guy sounds like a real pill, any guy who can't even respond to a text is not worth it. All of these guys are passable. Keep playing the field, the right guy will happen along sooner or later.
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I think alex is best for you. Josh is a jerk and doesnt deserve you because he is only wanting you for the sex and after that you are gonna get hurt after he gets tired of using you. Drake doesnt even answer you so he isnt reliable. I say ask alex and if it doesnt work out stay single for a bit. It never hurts! Hope this helps! Ttyl. Xoxo, Farrah Gonzalez!
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