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mixed signals
15/f
okay. so i like this guy a lot. and i think he likes me, but im not sure. i went to this party the other night and he was there. and i got his attention because he texted me 20 minutes after the party ended. so we have been texting each other off and on for the past few weeks, and sometimes he will just stop answering me. which is weird since he texts me first. and whenever i mention hanging out he says either alright or cool? what does that mean. im getting mixed signals. HELP PLEASE :)
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well it sounds like he does, but doesnt know how to show it.
when you mention hanging out and he says alright or cool, i think hes trying to sound cool but isnt. and maybe when he quits texting you, either something came up (like parents yelling at him to do chores or something) or maybe just doesnt know what to say to you, and doesnt want you to think hes stupid or something.
maybe try talking to him about it. i find when you just tell a guy you like them, or ask them, they either tell you yes or no, (if they say maybe, either they arent sure or it is a yes they just dont wanna say it).
or ask who they like, and if they dont tell you, get them to tell you clues and see if you fit the clues.
i hope i helped and good luck! just remember be yourself and just talk to him about it!
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Obviously he is flirting... badley. Maybey your his first MAJOR crush!?!?! He might not answer your frequently due to the fact he doesn't know what to say. He isn't this perfect man who will do everything right!
And whenever he says cool or alright he is trying to not to sound like a geek and so YEAH. But be cool and sly. So that IS his way of saying yes he would absolutly like to hang out with you! So now instead of asking to hang out set an exact time and date that way he has to give you an exact answer!
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