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okay, so im 15 years old and going into my sophomore year of high school. i have never had a boyfriend nor have i ever been kissed. (i know lame) the reason is i dont understand why. i am not bragging when i say this, but people have told me that i am a very attractive girl even model pretty. i am not heavy either. i guess you could say i am shy. i am not slutty like most girls and i have goals. i really dont understand why i cant get a boyfriend or even a boy to kiss me. i guess im picky i dont know? but every boy i seem to like never likes me back
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It's not lame. There's nothing wrong with having not been kissed or dated at your age. You're young, you don't need a boyfriend right now. You shouldn't need one to feel good about yourself either. People like other people who have confidence. If you don't believe in yourself or like yourself, how can you expect someone else to?
Nothing wrong with being picky, but try not to be too picky or have your standards set too high when it comes to guys because it'll be harder to find one if you set the bar too high. Right now though, don't worry about it. Worry yourself with school and friends or something. Boys aren't so important right now. You're 15. Be 15.
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Well,you know, boys that are your age aren't mature enough to handle a mature girl like you anyways :P! But honestly don't worry at all,I'm going to be a junior this year and haven't had a serious boyfriend yet! Sure;i've been close to getting boyfriends, but none have been the right guy;maybe its the same for you? Personally, i'd rather wait for the right guy to come my way then get into all these wrong relationships,so think of it that way :}. In time you'll become more outgoing, maybe your just a little guy-shy. Try getting out there and talking to them more-you never know-they could be nervous to talk to you! Also try to make the first move, and sometimes we don't realize how picky we are being;because we're scared of comitting. Get to know future potential guys on a more personal level, that way it'll be easier to decide if they're right for you in the first place. Trust me, everyone's been there before! It takes little steps at a time, but when it happens it'll be amazing :]!
i hope i helped!
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Hi,
I don't think this is such a big deal. If you think about the type of guys who inhabit schools you should be grateful you haven't been asked out. A lot of them waste their time on the slutty girls. I'm sure that the right guy will come along soon don't rush it and don't feel emberrased that you didn't settle.
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Honestly, I didn't have my first real boyfriend until the middle of my sophomore year. A lot of really pretty girls I know have never even had boyfriends, and sometimes it can be because guys want girls to come to them, and are shy themselves. I'm sure there are guys interested in you, but at that age guys are still kind of immature. It's not lame to have never been kissed :P it's normal. Boys are confusing and they'll get even more confusing as you get older, but the key with them is you need to take control, not them. So I suggest finding a guy, get to know him, then ask him out. It has nothing to do with you, you'd be surprised how many girls still haven't had boyfriends.
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