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NERVOUS! about asking him to hang out.
19, female.
so there's this guy, we use to be pretty close like THREE years ago. we still see each other now and then but its nothing like what we were before. we're both attracted to each other but i just always have a hard time even texting him, let alone ask him to hang out. its that "having a crush on someone, nervousness" but like a week ago i had to ask him something so then we started talking and i was like can we hangout when i get back from vacation? and he was like yea im down. and so now i'm back but i just dont really know how to ask him to hangout. he's always busy too, playing sports. he always has hockey and baseball. so i kind of want to just be like "so...when are we hanging out" but i dont think that will get me very far because i can see him being like "whenever" and its different because i always text flirty with him like i've said "you only see the one side of me, and thats the good side" and he was like "well whats your other side?" and i was like naughty;) and he was like why arent you like that with me! and so on haha. AND the thing is i've been to my cousins twice since i've been back and he's their next door neighbor and not once did he text me even saying like yeah we should all hang out, because hes close with my cousins too. i just overthink everything! is there a good way to ask him to hangout without the fear of being rejected and him being like sorry im busy. AND i dont even know what we would do!
anything is appreciated:)
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Look, rejection isn't so bad, life is short and without risks it isn't worth living.
And yes it seems like you like him, and yes you are over-thinking stuff.
So how about you take a deep breath and give him a call, just suggest you guys go play bowling or something...
Good Luck =]=]
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Well you should first off ask him before another girl does. Although sports is a hectic schedule he doesnt have them each day so check out which days he doesnt have them. Even if hes busy one day the worst he can say is maybe tomorow. Maybe you can even go to one of his games with a couple friends. Then maybe he'll decide to hang out with you. Hope this helps! -Farrah Gonzalez
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