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Girlfriend or just friends, I can't be in between.
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 4:06 pm
He was my boyfriend for the summer and we made the agreement that we would break up at the end. Stupid me, I got too attached and we broke up regardless. He does love me, and I love him too but he strongly doesn't believe in a long distance relationship. I have visited him in college and we hooked up and it was like nothing had even changed when we were together again... until I went home and realized he wasn't there. I asked him to either be mine or just friends because the gray area just killed. Enough to sleep with but not enough for a girlfriend. I'm madly in love with him, but should I just move on? Should I wait it out more? Does a 4 hour drive matter that much? Please... I'm drowning.
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How do i tell my parents..
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 4:06 pm
is there ANY easy way to tell your parents that you lost your virginity.. i mean its REALLY bothering me i cant tell them but i know i have to what do i do?? i cant have a relation ship with them based on lies.. you know?? cause we're starting out on better terms and were trying not 2 fight but i just dotn know what to do.. so yeah. thanks guys
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moving further with my girlfriend
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 4:06 pm
im a 15 year old guy.. my girlfriend and I have talked bout it and want to go further. we already make out. next is feeling up. we've talked bout that too. she's fine with it. I kno when we make out to put my hands on her hips and work my way up under her shirt but where do I put my hands. do I move up and place them on her boobs? what's after that?please help
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bad night, black out and confusing my crush.
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 3:20 pm
19,female.
i have a huge problem :(
so i have this anxiety disorder where sometimes i get really dizzy and black out. well i am taking medication for it, but it still happens sometimes.
anyways before i black out and things, i guess i start talking really like randomly, and i get really confused and don't make any sense.
well last night this happened to me and i guess i ended up texting one of my good guy friends, who i also like and was talking to him and he was so confused because i didn't really make any sense. he didn't know what was going on.
well today, i didn't really remember anything that happened and my parents were like you texted joe (the guy i was talkin...
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Marriage in question!
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 2:17 pm
I have been married going on 25 years. For the last few years, things have been going on a downhill slide. My husband hasn't been interested in "relations" for some time now. When I tried to discuss this with him, he blows his top and tells me to leave him alone and I am feeling like a disease. Things have gotten so bad that I have actually found out he has been on a website for swingers and on line hook ups. I set him up and he actually showed up for the meet n' greet (which I didn't go too...ya im a cowardI even went so far as to have an affair (I still see him on occassion). I really think we are both done with it. What other options do I have to work this out.
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Can't get her out of my thoughts...
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 5:07 am
I've known this girl for a few years and I missed my chance out of pure stupidity several times. It wasn't just some stupid hormonal attraction either - it's like she's the first person who treated me like a human being and respected me for who I am. (I like the way the 70s were better than now - not that I was alive then - and people tend to harass me because of my style in everything.)
So she looked past the surface and saw who I really was, which is what made it so impossible to even ask anything. I wasn't used to this treatment.
Anyway, she moved LAST summer and I still can't get her out of my head. Any ideas?
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I like my best friend ....
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 1:56 am
So me and my really close guy friend used to have a thing and he kinda told me he just wanted to be friends.
Now ,we are extremely close. we hangout everyday,we talk all the time and he kinda makes sexual gestures toward me,and talks about us hooking up...we haven't though since we stopped "talking".
But I still really like him,and we are like best friends but it feels like more to me.
what should i do?
I'm scared to talk to him about it because i don't want him to stop being my friend...
I was considering maybe actually taking his "hookup talk" more seriously and see how that goes.
help!
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I need advice please
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 9:20 pm
okay well im new to this sex stuff so anyways im too young rite ive been talking to this guy for a least 3 months but never was official rite and i didnt want it to be offical cus i dont know but anyways he is a tooottaaallyyy bitchh pig asshole etc. he showed me that he really cared for me and i really started to like him. but i just knew the only thing he wanted was sex so we messed around and stuufff like me giving him a hand job and him fingering me but never gave it up to him hell nah. i felt so pressured and disgusted towards myself and i never told anyone about it. so just one lil thing i did was that i told somegirl about me messing around with him so he goes crazy on me he's like "omg why did you do that she already knows all ...
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he hurt my gf
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 8:07 pm
so there was this party the other night. my girlfriend went with her friends but i couldnt because i was working. there were kids from other schools there too. well the way i heard it was that this one dude was messing with my girl all night. flirting with her and stuff and that about halfway into the party he grabbed her ass. she slapped his hand away and i guess he flipped out. he pushed her over and kicked her. i want to kill him. shes got this huge nasty bruise and she scraped up her arm and hand when he pushed her onto the pavement. i dont think ive ever been this furious. i feel guilty too that if i had been there to protect her, it wouldnt have happened. i know who he is because ive played him in football, and i want to kick his ass....
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Matt AND Jason ♥Help
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 6:32 pm
okay so my sitiuation is complicated and completely my fault, but im stuck and need advice on how to get out of it.
ok so theres these two guys jason and matt and they are both so incredibly amazing, and thats the problem.
Jason Is a guy I can completely see myself being with and being happy. We have our relationship times and our times when we can just be freinds and have no care in the world. He's the one I cant stop thinking about no matter what Im doing or who Im with.
Matt on the other hand is somewhat of a very big player, but when I see him he always brings me to this place I never knew existed. I could sit and kiss him for the rest of my life. He makes me feel like the prettiest most amazing girl in the world....
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pissed off
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 6:30 pm
Alright I'm 14/F and the guy is 16/M. Pretty much, when he asked, I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he stopped talking to me. I really liked him. He told me he could see himself dating me and that he cared about me. Well he obviously doesn't care that much if he would just drop me like that because I wasn't going to let him do me. Like what the hell? Who does he think he is? I'm not a toy he can just fool around with (we had made out) and then drop when he found out he couldn't get in my pants. I want to get back at him SO bad but I don't know what to do. Help?
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tattoo
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 4:45 pm
i just recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. this whole experience has taught me a lot. I already have two tattoos that i love. I want to get a gun tattooed on my hip. ((not pointing to my crouch, i dont like that) but I want a quote or something tattooed with the gun. Its hard to explain how i feel. I am over him,b ut everything I've learned from this relationship will always be with me. It was a great relationship dont get me wrong, but its meaningful to me. The last few months were rocky, and hurtful, I think this is why I want this tattoo.
Any ideas? I was thinking "untouchable"
something along those lines.
Not really about love, but me in general. its hard to explain. Any ideas are welcomed, thanks!!
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just wants sex.?
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 11:24 am
16/f
so i'm dating this guy who i pretty much know just wants sex. i brought it up to him and he was all like "no i promise, i'm not i'll prove it to you" and stuff like that. so then i was okay, you know maybe he does want what i want which is a relationship because ive had a strong, good relationship before and thats what i want again. well the next day he comes to my house to hang out and we started fooling around, i went along with it i mean i have hormones to but then he asked me to have sex with him..right after he told me thats not what he wants. i really like him but i'm not about to just have sex with a guy i've known for a couple months and have been dating like a week and he hasnt even tried to get to kno...
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Incest
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 10:29 am
Many people have their own opinons on family romance and im curiouse what are your thoughts?
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do he really love me?
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 10:03 am
me and my bf have been having problems lately...this female girl has been texting him and i dont like it at all.....yesterday she randomly text him and i told him to tell her to stop texting you..So my bf reply back and said "Please dont text me". and she said ok.....those this mean that he really care about me & love me..& theres nothing going on with his female friend? is he a keeper?
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not ready for a relationship
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 9:56 am
hi all <3 to start with, i am 17 and theres a guy who i really like who is 18. basically we met about 3 months ago now, at first we were just friends but it wasnt long before we kissed b/c we were both attracted to eachother. he said he really likes me and i said the same back to him. his friends say that he has told them that he really likes me.
recently he has told that he really likes me but he isnt ready for a relationship. and then kissed me. and he said that it hurt him when another guy admitted that he liked me too.
i understand that when guys say they arent ready for a relationship, that they actually mean that and it isnt a way of getting out of something. i know he likes me but im just wondering what to do now? i...
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boyfriend stuff
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 8:17 am
Okay so I am 15(F)and the guy is 16(M). I really like him. We have been dating for like two months now. But anyway. The problem is that sometimes he can be really dirty. Sometimes I like it or I don't mind it, but other times I feel like he wants me to be dirty back. He wants to have sex... Yeah, I don't. He gets that though I think. But whenever we are making out, I am always the one to stop it. Like, if it starts going too far, I am always the one to say "Okay, that's enough". I feel like he is always ready to just keep going, that I can't slip up. Or sometimes when we are on the phone or texting he will send/say somthing really dirty and I will be like "uhm..." and just kind of choke up. He's always like "Don't b...
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i don't know how to talk to him
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 4:30 am
There is this guy that i dated for around a month (i know not very long) anyway on the last week of our relationship he would be going over to some other girls house more then he would be coming over to see me. When he broke up with me he said that his life was to screwed up to be in a relationship and that he still really liked me. Two days later a friend of mine saw him with the girl my ex had been seeing while dating me. So now im stuck hanging around with him cause hes my best friends friend, and i really want to confront him on the situation cause i still really like him. Should i let it be or should i tell him how i feel?
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AFRAID and needing to know!!
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 3:52 am
14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm...
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Okay guys or girls, tell me what this means...
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 1:12 am
Okay, so I really liked this guy. And I totally thought he liked me too. He definitely lead me on. But when my friend asked him if he had any interest in me he simply replied "She's not really what I'm looking for right now." Okay, so I know that's the nice way of putting it. But obviously he meant something else. You can be harsh, that's okay. If you were a guy and you said this, do you really mean it? Or is there another meaning to the words.
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