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Girlfriend or just friends, I can't be in between.
He was my boyfriend for the summer and we made the agreement that we would break up at the end. Stupid me, I got too attached and we broke up regardless. He does love me, and I love him too but he strongly doesn't believe in a long distance relationship. I have visited him in college and we hooked up and it was like nothing had even changed when we were together again... until I went home and realized he wasn't there. I asked him to either be mine or just friends because the gray area just killed. Enough to sleep with but not enough for a girlfriend. I'm madly in love with him, but should I just move on? Should I wait it out more? Does a 4 hour drive matter that much? Please... I'm drowning.
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What it sounds like to me is he isn't wanting a relationship he only wants one thing and your mistake is giving it to him. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have broken up with you and he would make it work. And ask yourself this are you driving to see him or is he driving to see you?
If the answer is your driving to see him than you need to move on he is just using you and you deserve better.
Drop him.
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If he truely doesn't want to do a long term relationship then things aren't gonna change. The same pattern will keep going. Everytime you see him it will probably turn into a hookup. Honestly, in the long run.. if you love someone and keep hooking up with them, your only going to be hurting yourself even more. Guys seem to be able to hold onto the physical attachment and the emotional part starts to drift. At least in my case.. I hold onto both. The physical and emotional attachment. Trust me.. it really hurts. I think it would be in your favor to resist hooking up and try to be good friends.
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