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Can't get her out of my thoughts...
I've known this girl for a few years and I missed my chance out of pure stupidity several times. It wasn't just some stupid hormonal attraction either - it's like she's the first person who treated me like a human being and respected me for who I am. (I like the way the 70s were better than now - not that I was alive then - and people tend to harass me because of my style in everything.)
So she looked past the surface and saw who I really was, which is what made it so impossible to even ask anything. I wasn't used to this treatment.
Anyway, she moved LAST summer and I still can't get her out of my head. Any ideas?
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you have to ask yoursef what this was- and ealy think about it- was this true love at first sight? or first crush or even a fling? perhaps you were just taken back because of her random kindness even and mistaked it for attracton? anythings possible, but you have to decide what level of replationship you are on with her, if you decide its nothing more then summer love then perhaps she wasnt your soulmate, the answer will be in your heart, not your head!
hope this helps
miyuki rini =^.^=
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Just because you missed your chance with this girl, doesn't mean you'll miss it again with another girl .. since there WILL be another girl. Just as the previous advice you were given, I'll say the same thing, at least now you know that there are people out there who won't just look at you for what's on the outside, but look at you and LOVE you for what's on the inside. You seem like a great person with a lot of potential, and just because you can't get her out of your head doesn't mean you're over her. You think about her, because you liked how she looked past the outside and onto the inside .. you need to know that she'll always be in your heart and mind because she was the first person to see you for who you really are. Nothing is impossible, and that girl just proved it. Sooner or later you'll meet someone else just as fantastic as the other girl, and she'll just be a memory, but until then, savor your feelings for her, maybe you could even try searching for her so you can talk to her ? But write down your feelings alot, and what you think about because if you write it down, then you'll never forget her or anything, and that will help you kind of forget about her, but in reality, you will never forget her because she helped you :]
good luck ! have fun and don't worry :] if she's in your head, she's supposed to be there. hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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Hey.
I'm sorry about the way people have been treating you. It's not fair to discriminate a person based on their interests and style :/. Just know that although you missed your chance with this girl, she is proof that not all people are judgmental. Yes, there are many people who will judge people simply because they are "different" but there are equally as many people who will respect you for you. The important thing is to be completely confident in who you are. In my experience people tend to pick on people who appear to be weak. Therefore, the stronger your character becomes, the less these people's opinions will matter. Ultimately, we must live our lives in the way that makes us the happiest. The purpose of life is a topic that most people are unsure of, but the only thing that is certain is that life has two routes: happiness or unhappiness. The choice of which path we will take is in our hands alone. No one can tell you how to live your life. With all this said, please never think that the world is full of cold-hearted people. Use this as an opportunity to strengthen you character and be completely in love with who you are. You a precious and unique person and no one can take that away from you. I guarantee that the more your attitude changes for the better, the more people you will encounter just like this girl.
Take care <3.
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Oh im sorry to hear. Thats so stupid they would treat you like that because of your style, everyone trys to blend in but you show who you really are that takes courge people should respect this, I know I do. I also have a weird taste I change my style alot like goth then skates then caussually. She must of been pretty kewl to see you for who you really are. Its a shame you didnt take the chance when you had it but dont think of it as a loss but rather a gain knowing someone saw you for who you are.
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