Recently I've been having these really weird dreams about a friend of mine.
A little backgrund info:
He's one of my best mates in school, we tell each other everything and anything and we could talk for hours. He used to go out with my best mate, but when they broke up we liked each other and we made out a few times (my best mate was fine with it). I was stuck between this other guy and my friend, he was stuck between me and my best mate, who he still had feelings for. Anyways, we're just friends now.
Since it's the summer holiday (we hang out with different people but in the same place) we havent since that much of each other recently. But I've been having these really weird dreams about him which are happening like a few times a week. In the dreams we've been real close like hugging and he's showing that he really cares for me but I always end up staying with my boyfriend.
But last night, it was completely different. We were at a party or something in my house, but we were both at a computer and talking to each other, he was saying something like "I'm in love and hungry". So, him being my best mate I was trying to get it out of him. He ended up saying "It's you" and then he went offline. Later on, we were in my kitchen (I was wearing a jumper he had given me the day we had made out because I was cold) and we were hugging and I said to him "I care about you so much" and he kinda went into kiss me but I backed off saying I would never do anything like that to my boyfriend (and I even wouldn't in real life). Then, I just went upstairs to my boyfriend, I kissed him and I woke up.
Sorry if it's long but these dreams are really bugging me xD and last nights was real different, so I was just wondering if anyone could explain this dream?
Thanks :)
Basically, your dreams just going off on how you feel. You obviously like this guy, but I'm sure you love your boyfriend very much.
I think you should talk to your guy friend and tell him how you feel. Now, I'm not saying dump your boyfriend or anything! Because, I know you probably care about him a lot. I think you just have some thinking to do. Ask yourself some questions:
Do I really love my boyfriend?
Would I be willing to break up with my boyfriend for my guy friend?
Do I have REAL feelings for my guy friend?
And
Is it worth it?
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