Im just an understanding girl, I love to listen,I love to help, and I won't judge. I hope to be a pyschologist, and im a poet as well. So ask away, I hope I can be of some help
E-mail: miyukibabi@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: dreamer
Age: 16
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Member Since: August 13, 2009
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14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm really trusting and wanted to believe everything he'd tell me because I really thought he cared. But apparently not.
He begged me to stay with him. He cried after randomly blowing up multiple times at me and apologizing. He did everything to make me believe he cared.
I'm naive and believed him.
Can guys really lie like this, this easily??? Should I not trust guys anymore??? because honestly, I'm scared....I know just saying straight out that I'm scared may seem a bit irrational but...really. I don't want to go through this ever again.
any advice will be greatly appreciated. really any, you have no idea. (link)
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LEAVE HIM tha is not worth it! you are a trong and powerful woman! you are beneath no one! be strong, be yourself, he is not the one for you, you deserve so much better
miyuki rini
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16/f
i'm wondering if it hurts when girls lose there virginity. on a scale of 1 to 10. i was also wondering what is dry humping? (link)
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for me it took a couple of trys- best advice? fingering. that will loosen you up and make it so much eaiser on you. lots of it. it helps
miyuki rini
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okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it? (link)
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heres an answer you wont expect- DONT. thats right, dont get over it. wait for a man you love, your soulmate, and you will feel 100% comfortable around him automatically. trust me, i was the same
miyuki rini
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I lost my virginity about 2 years ago and my boyfriend is still a virgin. We muck around sometimes with nothing on and sometimes he gets a tiny bit of semen on me. He fingers me all the time and the other day he was fingering me and I felt myself become really wet then he pulled his fingers outa few moments later and his hand was covered in blood. It stopped bleeding straight away but I have had a tiny bit of dark brown blood in the last two days since. I'm not due to have my period for another week at least. Could I be pregnant? I'm really scared, why is this happening? (link)
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def not pregant! dw:) its happned to me too, usually because the guy was a little rough, nothing to worry about:)
miyuki rini
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okay there's this guy I've been "good freinds" with for a while now and he keeps bugging me to have sex with him. I really do want to but he makes me nervous! It has always been easy for me to sleep with guys and feel good about myself but this guy intimidates me so much. we always get so close but I get nervous that my body isnt pretty enough for him and he wont like me anymore. I guess its cause all his ex girlfreinds that I've seen have been drop dead gorgeous and Im not quite there. What can I do to make my self feel more comfortable around him where I can have sex with him? (link)
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i think beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, if he finds you "worthy" and wants to anyway then you are already there:) do whatever you want to make yourself feel beautiful, inside and out, try a manicure, pamper yourself:) and have faith and self confidence! every woman is beautiful, dont compare yourself to exes!
miyuki rini
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15/f
ive been cutting myself for about two years. its not constant, in fact i stopped for about seix months, but lately ive kindof picked up where i left off and ive been cutting every few days now. i really really want to stop, but everytime i look it up online, i see things like "take a warm bath, go for a run, blahblahblah." and i really dont think that taking a bath or running is going to help me to stop cutting. i need ways on how to stop.
also, is there like an on-line couseling type of thing? where i could talk to a psychologist? i really dont want to tell my parents because they would be so dissappointed in me and wouldnt understand. but i just want someone professional to talk to. besides, i dont know if i could afford seeing a therapist.
please help me to stop cutting. (link)
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look up on the internet for phone counslers, and know thi isntthe case but even if you call a suicide hotline professionals will talk to you, im not sure if your relgious bt also try God, try the bible. his love is amazing, i am an ex cutter myself and it is love that saved me
in my prayers,
miyuki rin
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*18 female
i really really want the iphone. but my dad wants me to get the samsung eternity. which phone is better? (link)
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Jst for warning iphone users i know have had alot of problems with their phones, technical problems, eternity might be better for the money and durability. tr an ipod touch if u like the iphone :) p.s they r bad for texting!
miyuki rini
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how can i convert an mp3 format to an mp4 format? (link)
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search for ease audio converter! online
miyuki rini
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OK
So i am getting married in December and as you probably deduced from the title, I have a dilemma.
My Biological father has always been in my life from timt to time. I only saw him occasionally, (like every other weekend) but our relationship has always been a good one. He's never been my provider though...
My STEP DAD has been married to my mother for 16 years, pretty much my entire childhood, and he was the provider and took care of everything I ever needed...the catch? He and I have NEVER had a strong relationship, HOWEVER, he and my mom are divorced now, and since the divorce, he and I have formed somewhat a pretty good relationship, he is still in my life. And helps me when he can.
SO SEE MY PROBLEM? heres a few things I was thinking....let me know what you think.
option 1: They BOTH walk me down the aisle. (i dont really want to do this. It just doesnt appeal to me, but everyone suggests it.
option 2: My dad walks me half-way, step-dad meets in the middle, and walks me the rest of the way, and gives me away at the alter.
now I have thought of another idea, one I really LIKE but I want others opinion on. Its not exactly tradiotional and Im not sure if its ever been done...here it is:
My BEST FRIEND Corey has been with me through everything. What if HE walked me down the aisle, and my dads were both standing at the alter with my Groom, and then when Corey gets me to the alter, he would hand me over to my dads and they would give me away, and Corey would resume his post as the groomsmen. That way they could both give me away and there wouldnt be any drama or hurt feelings??
HOW DOES THAT SOUND?
all opnions and advice would be great. thanks in advance!
21/f (link)
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def number one! let them both be included :) only fair? and its only one walk :)
miyuki rini
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This straightener has had over 4500 reviews and it's a 5 star straightener.. has anyone tried it? i wanna KNOW it works before i pay 120$ for a new one. my hair is awful, and i truly mean it. i always wear it up because its just way too think/curly/and frizzy to wear down. PLEASE let me know if you've ever heard about this straightener. THANKS! (link)
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wow so much money! try a conair one:) much cheaper and they are fanstic!
hope this helps,
miyuki-rini
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19,female.
i have a huge problem :(
so i have this anxiety disorder where sometimes i get really dizzy and black out. well i am taking medication for it, but it still happens sometimes.
anyways before i black out and things, i guess i start talking really like randomly, and i get really confused and don't make any sense.
well last night this happened to me and i guess i ended up texting one of my good guy friends, who i also like and was talking to him and he was so confused because i didn't really make any sense. he didn't know what was going on.
well today, i didn't really remember anything that happened and my parents were like you texted joe (the guy i was talking about) and he was really confused, and didn't know what you were trying to say, and they said i should apologize for it. i felt reallly bad.
so today, i texted him and was like i'm so sorry. i ended up not being able to breathe and blacking out which is why i was confusing you and why i didnt make sense and my parents said i should apologize to you for doing that to you.
and.... he never said anything back.
it's really not my fault, but i still feel bad. but i think its kind of rude that he didn't even like say anything back. my parents said i didn't say anything mean or anything that would make him mad. but it's hurting me because i can't believe he just didnt say anything back..
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well im not sure how long ago this happened but could something be wrong with his phone? or maybe he got grounded and his parens took it? point is anything could happen :) defitley try to see him in person ^_^
miyuki-rini =^.^=
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I already know this answer, yes. People change.
People change their emotions, overtime they become and act differently then they may have originaly.
Now the reason why I am asking this
Me and a friend have gotten into and argument over this.
She says there is scientific fact and proof people NO NOT change.
And it baffles me somebody actually believes this cause it is the stupidest thing I have every heard in my life.
Now. I gave my friend examples.
I told her me, her, and three other people we know have changed dramaticaly within the year.
As in, style, attitude, thoughts.
Yet she still insists people don't change?
I googled "Proof people don't change"
But I didn't get anything even remotly close to this subject.
I'm asking for you're opinions. Do people change? Why or why not?
Is there proof? If so, where?
And last but not least, do not comment on way or how we gotten into this argument. That is none of your business nor is it any of your concer.
Thanks. (link)
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I agree, but i do not however think your friend is DUMB, slightly rude. but i do think that its possible she thinks this for a reason, maybe shes seen firshand that maybe someone she cared about never changed, and uses that as her base. But yes people do change, howeverinstead f disputing the fact why come to one cnclusion? after all an opinion can't hurt, so what if she thinks they dont change? it wo' affect anything truly, and wont affect your friendship, instead of trying to be right, just accept it iswhat it is :)
hope this helps,
miyuki-rini =^.^=
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I've known this girl for a few years and I missed my chance out of pure stupidity several times. It wasn't just some stupid hormonal attraction either - it's like she's the first person who treated me like a human being and respected me for who I am. (I like the way the 70s were better than now - not that I was alive then - and people tend to harass me because of my style in everything.)
So she looked past the surface and saw who I really was, which is what made it so impossible to even ask anything. I wasn't used to this treatment.
Anyway, she moved LAST summer and I still can't get her out of my head. Any ideas? (link)
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you have to ask yoursef what this was- and ealy think about it- was this true love at first sight? or first crush or even a fling? perhaps you were just taken back because of her random kindness even and mistaked it for attracton? anythings possible, but you have to decide what level of replationship you are on with her, if you decide its nothing more then summer love then perhaps she wasnt your soulmate, the answer will be in your heart, not your head!
hope this helps
miyuki rini =^.^=
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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
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your alive because you have a purpose that he needs you for, remember that God loves you, despite what other people say, you are perfect in his eyes, he made you afterall. so istead of worrying about ohers opinions, know that you have a place reserved in heaven, and a Father who loves you. you just have to ask him,
hope this helps
miyuki-rini =^.^=
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I have a huge problem. I know it might sound wierd but dont laugh! I want to date men, kiss men,have sex with men,mary a men and have children with a men but i would'nt mind have sex with a girl! Am i a lesbian or not? But i want to mary and have sex with a men but like if a girl came to me and ask me if i wanted to have sex with her i would'nt mind and i'd say yes! So plz help me and tell me if you considered me a lesbian.
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it just sounds to me like your bi curious:) Im actually bisexual myself, typically if yu are young this could be the reason. but usually you dont know if your actually gay until after a awhile. took me two years. just found that men repulse me, thought sexually bout women, so i finally came out:) you may grow out of thi though, it is normal!
hope this helps
miyuki rini =^.^=
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Im always deppresed and I want it to stop. I cant aford theropy and I refuse to take pills. Any ideas? (link)
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the best thing? go herbal! st johns wort is great for depression, so is alteril. all plants:) go to a local GNC or go online to GNC.com :) in person they could help you, and online you can order anything:)
hope this helps,
miyuki rini
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