Member Since: August 13, 2009
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I didn't know where to put this question, but I hope it's OK here.
I'm 15/F from the UK. And earlier this year I had a really rough time at school because I didn't know where I belonged anymore (with friends, I mean) and consquently, I self harmed on my lower left arm. No one knows about it apart from my closest best friends. But it's been really hard recently trying to cover it up with cardigans, jumpers and hoodies etc.
I know, I know, I was wrong to do what I did, but it happened and there is nothing I can do about it (or at least I don't think I can) and I really regret doing it. It's like a living memory of the loss of friends and regret that I see everyday - I hate it.
I really wanted to ask what you think I could do about it? because I know it's going to take ages to heal properly so you can hardly see anything. It's all up the lower part of my arm and they're like promenant red marks. Some of them have a white strip down the middle of it, but not all of them.
Please, if you have any ideas how I can get rid of them, I would highly appreciate it. Thanks in advance, :) (link)
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Here are some sites that might help
http://www.natural-homeremedies.com/homeremedies_scar.htm
http://www.scarstretchmarkremoval.com/usd/?gclid=CLD1z9TxoZwCFYZM5QodYzSvkw
Or you could just come out and accept that you have scars. Just please dont do it anymore.
You can cover them with sleeves, wristbands, makeup
sincerely deadbearsgirl
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Last school year i dated this guy for a whie, then he told me he needed his space to get his life and grades back on track, and promised me that it wasn't the end of us. So i gave him his space and everything, then about a month later he is with another girl. I tried my hardest to move on but i just couldnt he was all i thought about. Occasionally we would talk and then it would stop for some reason. Now its summer and he started talking to me and telling me he made a mistake and that he is sorry and that he stil loves me. This of course made me really happy. Now we have been talking for quite some time and ha said he wants there to be an "us" again, but we should take our time ant not rush(i totally agree).We have hung out a few times and kissed and stuf even talked about fantasies and had phone sex. He has been telling me things i want to hear and stuff then it seems i get mixed singnals sometimes. But then i wonder if its just me cuz i get worried alot and always think something is wrong. So my question is do you really think he wants me back or is he just playing around with me? What do you think i should do,because i really do want to be with him again, but im scared because he did break my heart?
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Your being messed with. He is one of those guys that says "i only wanna be with you when its convienient for me" You could do so much better. Yes it will hurt and i will gladly coach you through the whole process. But i would tell this guy to get out of your life and leave you alone. Being toyed with is not fun. Yes he will break your heart again. Yes he will use you. Yes he is going to tell you what you wanna hear. If i were you i would simply turn away from him and pick myself up and go on with life. You deserve to be treated better. If you would like i will help you through your process.
Sincerely deadbearsgirl
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I have a huge problem. I know it might sound wierd but dont laugh! I want to date men, kiss men,have sex with men,mary a men and have children with a men but i would'nt mind have sex with a girl! Am i a lesbian or not? But i want to mary and have sex with a men but like if a girl came to me and ask me if i wanted to have sex with her i would'nt mind and i'd say yes! So plz help me and tell me if you considered me a lesbian.
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I wouldnt consider you a lesbian. Your either curious about the same sex as you or your bisexual. there is nothing wrong with either of these. Many poeple have the same issues. Its not even a problem. Your probably attracted to women because honestly they have more too look at. Men can be taken as disgusting and foul. Women on the other hand smell nice, flaunt alot of their assets and they are always making themselves look awesome. Curiousity is not a bad thing, it just means you have a broader intrest. Dont get all torn up, if you want to go cure your curiousity. Theres nothing wrong with it.
Sincerly, Deadbearsgirl
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