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Lesbian or not???
I have a huge problem. I know it might sound wierd but dont laugh! I want to date men, kiss men,have sex with men,mary a men and have children with a men but i would'nt mind have sex with a girl! Am i a lesbian or not? But i want to mary and have sex with a men but like if a girl came to me and ask me if i wanted to have sex with her i would'nt mind and i'd say yes! So plz help me and tell me if you considered me a lesbian.
thanks
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Lesbians want to have sex with women and have relationships and fall in love with women.
You probably aren't a lesbian. Honestly, you can call yourself one if you want, but most people will think that's wierd.
You can call your bisexual, or bi-curious if you'd like too. More people will understand what you are talking about if you use those labels.
The simple truth is: lots of women have some degree of same-sex attraction, and not all of them are lesbians. Some of them wouldn't even call themselves bisexual. The more and more research that is done, the more and more people are learning how fluid sexuality is. It's not just gay or straight. There is a huge gray zone inbetween those two extremes.
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it just sounds to me like your bi curious:) Im actually bisexual myself, typically if yu are young this could be the reason. but usually you dont know if your actually gay until after a awhile. took me two years. just found that men repulse me, thought sexually bout women, so i finally came out:) you may grow out of thi though, it is normal!
hope this helps
miyuki rini =^.^=
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I wouldnt consider you a lesbian. Your either curious about the same sex as you or your bisexual. there is nothing wrong with either of these. Many poeple have the same issues. Its not even a problem. Your probably attracted to women because honestly they have more too look at. Men can be taken as disgusting and foul. Women on the other hand smell nice, flaunt alot of their assets and they are always making themselves look awesome. Curiousity is not a bad thing, it just means you have a broader intrest. Dont get all torn up, if you want to go cure your curiousity. Theres nothing wrong with it.
Sincerly, Deadbearsgirl
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I wouldn't consider you a lesbian. But my opinion would be that if you like men and women i would consider you a bisexual. Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong about it...just experiment with both and see which one you prefer or like better.
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No.
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I don't think you're a lesbian. I just think you're curious & there's nothing wrong with that.
If you want to just be with men, you're considered heterosexual. If you want to just be with women, then you're a homosexual (lesbian), and if you want to be with both, then you're bi-sexual.
There's nothing wrong with being any of those. However, for right now I would just consider you bi-curious because you're not really sure which is best for you right now.
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you love men and want to be with a man, but you are just sexually curious about women!
this makes you bisexual for now. who knows you might end up liking women better then men. OR you might realize that sleeping with girls just isnt your thing.
hope this helps! =]
steph 21
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Maybe you're bisexual. Maybe you're confused?
Which would you rather have sex with? A man or a woman?
Man? Straight.
Woman? Lesbian.
Tie? Bisexual.
--Jack
(17/m)
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