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Last school year i dated this guy for a whie, then he told me he needed his space to get his life and grades back on track, and promised me that it wasn't the end of us. So i gave him his space and everything, then about a month later he is with another girl. I tried my hardest to move on but i just couldnt he was all i thought about. Occasionally we would talk and then it would stop for some reason. Now its summer and he started talking to me and telling me he made a mistake and that he is sorry and that he stil loves me. This of course made me really happy. Now we have been talking for quite some time and ha said he wants there to be an "us" again, but we should take our time ant not rush(i totally agree).We have hung out a few times and kissed and stuf even talked about fantasies and had phone sex. He has been telling me things i want to hear and stuff then it seems i get mixed singnals sometimes. But then i wonder if its just me cuz i get worried alot and always think something is wrong. So my question is do you really think he wants me back or is he just playing around with me? What do you think i should do,because i really do want to be with him again, but im scared because he did break my heart?
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When he all of the sudden comes back after all of that, he's playing you. First of all, it was very rude of him to ask for space and then begin to date another girl a month later. He probably thinks you were 100% fine with it, meanwhile, you're not. Sometimes, in these situations, the guy may want actual space to think, deal with situations in his life, and whatever else. However, there's also other situations where the guy just does it because he wants to see what else is out there..and by saying "I want space", it's easier instead of breaking up with you because it makes you think there's actual hope in becoming a couple again, which also leads to him being able to go back to you when he feels like it.
He said he wanted space to "get life and grades on track"..why would he date another girl a month later? I'm not saying that he lied. Because, I don't know him. Maybe that really was the reason! But, obviously he didn't mind having a girlfriend during that time because he began dating another girl.
It's possible, as I said before, he just wanted to see what else was out there. Who knows? Maybe he does have feelings for you. But, I really do think he's playing you. I understand you want to be with him because you like him a lot, but this guy obviouslylikes to play games.
My advice: Don't be with him. He broke your heart, and will probably do it again. You can't just put what he did behind you, that's going to make him think you're okay with it. Which, obviously, you weren't.
He's using you. And, it's possible heartbreak could happen again. But, it's your job to make sure he doesn't do it again!
Anyway! please, re-think this guy.
Hope I helped, good luck! :)
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Your being messed with. He is one of those guys that says "i only wanna be with you when its convienient for me" You could do so much better. Yes it will hurt and i will gladly coach you through the whole process. But i would tell this guy to get out of your life and leave you alone. Being toyed with is not fun. Yes he will break your heart again. Yes he will use you. Yes he is going to tell you what you wanna hear. If i were you i would simply turn away from him and pick myself up and go on with life. You deserve to be treated better. If you would like i will help you through your process.
Sincerely deadbearsgirl
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